I've never had the desire to be fucked by a man, or suck cock until a few years ago when my wife started mentioning a fantasy she has. She brought up how she fantasized about watching her boyfriend fuck me while she laid in the bed masterbating. Over time I started finding myself fantasizing about a similar situation and it has become a more frequent fantasy since. I found some porn along those lines and shared it with her but she didn't react well. She immediately started saying she didn't like gay porn, and she doesn't want me to be gay, etc. Very conflicting and a bit confusing. I've since cooled off on any hints or talk about other guys fucking me because she never seems to reciprocate but rather shuts down. Then, this morning, she woke me up around 6.30a horny and wanting to mess around. She does this somewhat regularly, and (not so) coincidently 6.30 is about the time she typically would be arriving at "work" back when she went into the office regularly. So it seems years of fucking her boyfriend before work has conditioned her to get aroused at that time.
This morning she told me she'd had a dream about watching me fuck another girl. A blonde with big fake tits. But then she mentioned that she also dreamed about a guy fucking me and her at the same time. Going back and forth.
That was the extent of it. I'm not sure the best way to tease more out of her and open up a more graphic dialogue during play that would help open up the conversation a bit more without falling into the same shut down "I don't like gay sex" trap that we've run into before.
Any advice? What about her fantasy is it she is so aroused by and what elements are putting her off? Has anyone else thread the needle?
This morning she told me she'd had a dream about watching me fuck another girl. A blonde with big fake tits. But then she mentioned that she also dreamed about a guy fucking me and her at the same time. Going back and forth.
That was the extent of it. I'm not sure the best way to tease more out of her and open up a more graphic dialogue during play that would help open up the conversation a bit more without falling into the same shut down "I don't like gay sex" trap that we've run into before.
Any advice? What about her fantasy is it she is so aroused by and what elements are putting her off? Has anyone else thread the needle?
