Genuine Opinions Sought : Did My Wife Just Have 1 Ex Before?

[damian murphy]

Hi everyone,

This may be long, but it is a genuine cry for your honest opinion and comments so I want to provide full details for you. I wish I was wild and sharing my wife and all that exciting stories to tell you, but this is nothing like that. Some of you may already know this as we have spoken before...

I met and married my wife when she was 30 years old. She's the sweetest girl, so innocent and everyone who knows her say she's very cute. But there are a few things that I can't get out of my mind:

a) She said she's a virgin, I was surprised but she looked so sweet I bought it and waited till wedding night. But on wedding night, she role-played being ******, tried to finger me (I didn't let her!!) and watched porn together. Don't get me wrong, I love it, but it made me question her and very quickly she admitted she had 1 man before me.

b) She said that one ex, she was together for 4 years but only slept together a few times and therefore still very good for me. I don't buy that they only slept together a few times but she insists.

c) We don't do dirty talk really, but I try my best to coax it out of her. I once asked how big her ex is, she said she can't remember but that mine is perfect. Can that be true that a woman forgets her first?

d) When watching porn, I intentionally said it's great I'm not as big as them otherwise she'd be in pain. She said bigger the better (this was at the hottest moment for me). She added that the thicker the better but she doesn't mind about the length but long is good too.

I still believe she had 1 ex but part of me keep thinking if I am being too naive and stupid.

So my question, finally getting to it, do you believe my wife had just 1 ex before?

All comments, opinions and anything really will be very welcome...

Thanks so much all >,<

 

[midnightfapper]

Did she say she was a virgin first, then admitted to fucking an ex later, or did she say that she had an ex but never fucked him?

IF she really was a virgin at 30 and only one ex then you can bet that she was probably an insatiable masturbater. She probably learned the finger-up-the-bum trick from porn/the internet, and that's probably where all her other kinks came from too. The "bigger is better" comment could be referring to her experience with dildos. Many women enjoy dildos that are much larger than the real thing.

It would be like using a firm grip when you jack off. Porn and your hand taught you that "tighter is better", but you wouldn't want a girl so tight that it hurt either of you. It may sound good on paper, but in practice it's just a pain... literally. Her very simplistic "bigger is better" attitude hints at her lack of real-life experience.

I believe that there is a strong possibility that's she's telling the truth. Have you tried talking to mutual friends?





Or... she could also be lying, and has had lots of nasty fetish sex with giant cocks. One can only imagine what a depraved ***** she used to be.