First of all I'm not a cuck and I'd prefer not to become one. I'm currently living with a flatmate because of college and he asked me if he can msg my girlfriend because he wants to get me a birthday present and wants to surprise me with it so he would like to get her input on the gift. I said sure why not and he told me to just tell her that he is gonna hit her up and that I don't wanna know what they talk about but that I'm fine with it. So I did that and then a day later she asked me if I really don't wanna know what they talk about and if I'm really fine with it. I said sure. Because I thought it's about the birthday surprise like he said.
But it got me a little suspicious and was wondering why she asks me like that. When she went to take a shower I took her phone and read the messages and he told her that my secret fantasy is being cucked and that I want him to hook up with her but that I am ashamed and embarrassed to tell her. He told her that I want to hear it from him and when ever I talk to her about it or if I get jealous one day and be angry I would just pretending because that's my kink to be the jealous bf. He also told her that they should record it when they hook up so I can watch it when ever I am not with her.
My girlfriend isn't the brightest I must say. I mean I love her more than anything and I would never leave her no matter what but she is unfortunately also pretty gullible. She didn't believe him at first but then he talked her into believing it and she also somewhat got the confirmation from me about it when she asked me those questions and I thought it was about my birthday gift..
She told him that she isn't sure if she should go all the way with him but that she thinks she would do it for me if I really want this (I DON'T!!!). He told her that's fine and offered her a first date to get to know each other. She agreed to this.. They will go on their first date this saturday.
I tried to tell her that I know that she's going on a date with him and that I don't want her to go and that I don't want him anywhere near him but she just took it as me pretending to be the jealous bf like he told her and she just winked at me and said sure she won't go.
I really don't know what to do now. I feel powerless. I tried to confront him but he's just being an utter dick about it and says if I have problem I can move out.
Thats where I am at right now. I don't know what I do now to stop this. The worst part is that I think that my girlfriend is just genuinely doing it to make me happy and that this guy is getting his way with her because of it
any advice of what I can or should do is appreciated im a bit stunlocked and overwhelmed with all this
But it got me a little suspicious and was wondering why she asks me like that. When she went to take a shower I took her phone and read the messages and he told her that my secret fantasy is being cucked and that I want him to hook up with her but that I am ashamed and embarrassed to tell her. He told her that I want to hear it from him and when ever I talk to her about it or if I get jealous one day and be angry I would just pretending because that's my kink to be the jealous bf. He also told her that they should record it when they hook up so I can watch it when ever I am not with her.
My girlfriend isn't the brightest I must say. I mean I love her more than anything and I would never leave her no matter what but she is unfortunately also pretty gullible. She didn't believe him at first but then he talked her into believing it and she also somewhat got the confirmation from me about it when she asked me those questions and I thought it was about my birthday gift..
She told him that she isn't sure if she should go all the way with him but that she thinks she would do it for me if I really want this (I DON'T!!!). He told her that's fine and offered her a first date to get to know each other. She agreed to this.. They will go on their first date this saturday.
I tried to tell her that I know that she's going on a date with him and that I don't want her to go and that I don't want him anywhere near him but she just took it as me pretending to be the jealous bf like he told her and she just winked at me and said sure she won't go.
I really don't know what to do now. I feel powerless. I tried to confront him but he's just being an utter dick about it and says if I have problem I can move out.
Thats where I am at right now. I don't know what I do now to stop this. The worst part is that I think that my girlfriend is just genuinely doing it to make me happy and that this guy is getting his way with her because of it
any advice of what I can or should do is appreciated im a bit stunlocked and overwhelmed with all this
