First timer question

[jnv75]

I've been married to my wife (28yo, 5'3", 150lbs) for two years, and for some time I fantasize about her having sex with at least one black man usually three or four. The very idea of her having them run their hands in her panties and her rubbing their cocks on the drive to a hotel is almost exciting enough, but to think of seeing her take out their cocks and suck them while another goes down and removes her panties and then slides his shaft in her and then watching her taking these guys to climmax in her pussy and in her mouth and swallowing their cum, just gets me hot. The idea of her telling me to clean her up orally also excites me, I'm bi-curious and would welcome a chance to clean up a cream pie, or even have her make me taste her pussy from sucking off their cum and pussy laced dicks. With that said, I've never told her about these fantasies because I'm afraid of the reaction, Is this something couples know from the start or has anyone told their spouse after awhile and what was the reaction? This whould be a big leap, since the kinkyest we've done was role-play I was someone else, pretend we where in a porn and i cum on her face and tits, and engaged in anal sex. any help appreciated, btw I have some pics of her but my scanner doesn't work with windows xp.

 

[india020771]

Hi

Its quiet normal for lot of hubbies to feel about their wives enjoying black dick. The initial reaction is of shock but eventually wives agree as they are basically slutty in nature and cannot be satisfied with just one dick whole of their life.

 

[SandyWho]

Hi-

I am going to re-post some of advice from an earlier posting which I think applies:

My suggestion is to start off by spicing up your own sex life and seeing where it goes. Ok, what do I mean by that. If you do not think you can to talk to her about your desires, then first explore how far she is willing to go.

Try some sex games, like public sex or unusual places to make love. I have enjoyed sex on beaches in back of cars and even a quickie in a elevator. I have always recommended buying a nice black dildo and you would be surprised at how many fantasy games you can make up. You do not even have to be there for you both to enjoy it. I took mine on a airplane trip and enjoyed a solo version of the "Mile High Club".

Little things like that get you to open up your conversations about sex, desires, and fantasy.​

Most men have sexual fantasies but few are willing to explore them with their partners. You might be surprised by her willingness to play along so long as it remains a sex game. But asking a her right off to engage in sex with multiple strangers is not something she is likely to be happy about so stay away from that subject. It may turn out she is interested but first you need to explore together your desires and fantasies.