Fake couples I've encountered

[wellhunginnyc]

The following is a list of fake "couples" I've encountered so far. I'll provide a name and a description of what happened. Hopefully this post can save someone else from dealing with them.

joeandbethnyc - This is a guy who lives in NYC and really gets off on being humiliated. He uses the same three pics of a particular women claiming it's wife/gf "Beth". His end goal is just to get some other guy to degrade him over the phone.

lyn1yn - This is a guy, "Robert" who lives outside of DC. Loves to chat endlessly with you about you fucking his wife "Shalin". Will even claim that they meet up and play but will never actually leave the house. He's all talk and I wonder if his "wife" even knows what he does when he goes online. Oh and he also won't tell you this at first but he wants to be your "anal slut".

mambo207@yahoo.com - Claims to be the male half of a couple. Will talk a good game but then never respond to you. I recently heard from and responded but he hasn't written me back. He may or may not be real and I reserve the right to change my post if it turns out he was just busy or something but for now, as far as I'm concerned, he's just a pic collector.

Add yours to my list.

 

[Glenn]

What? Only THREE fakes?

Unfortunately, (IMO of course) the vast majority of people on the Internet are not truthful in one way or another. I think it's just the nature of anonymity. Also, remember that this (cuckolding, and other sexual variations) is mostly a male fantasy. Also, (IMO) very few women visit forums like this one. So, I'm not surprised that the COUPLES you've conversed with are MEN.

If you want to talk with REAL couples online, I would suggest adult dating sites such as adultfriendfinder.com. You will still have to weed out the fakes, but your chances of meeting REAL people are much higher.

Also, if you live in a large city, you may be lucky enough have a swinger/couples club that permits single men. It seems that very few allow single men, but SOME do on Friday nights. However, be prepared to pay a heavy admission fee (usually around $60 to $80), and there are no guarantees of course (if you know what I mean).

SOME (although probably very few) adult theaters are occasionally visited by couples. My wife and I (and friend) have been to a couple. Not the nicest places though, and it could be risky, as sexual activity is illegal in these places, but it may be an option.

Lastly you could try dogging. Dogging is relatively new in North America, but it seems to be catching on in some areas. I do know one couple who is into this and it seems to work for them. This option is also illegal of course, so beware.

 

[wellhunginnyc]

Thanks for the replies.

I have tried craigslist and aff and I've still encountered fakes! I guess my point is that they're everywhere and even when you think you found a genuine couple you can never be too sure. Some go to great lengths to conceal their fakeness.

 

[Glenn]

Thanks for the replies.

I have tried craigslist and aff and I've still encountered fakes! I guess my point is that they're everywhere and even when you think you found a genuine couple you can never be too sure. Some go to great lengths to conceal their fakeness.

Yes, unfortunately you will always encounter "fakes", but should have a better chance of meeting a REAL couple through adult dating sites. Also, I just realized that you live in NYC, so with that size population, you should have no trouble meeting real people. You just need to be patient. Believe me, it is worth the effort.

 

[Glenn]

Yes, unfortunately you will always encounter "fakes", but should have a better chance of meeting a REAL couple through adult dating sites. Also, I just realized that you live in NYC, so with that size population, you should have no trouble meeting real people. You just need to be patient. Believe me, it is worth the effort.

Oh, forgot to mention that there are different kinds of fakes. Some are obvious, picture collectors for example, and those are the ones you have to discard. However, some couples are simply unsure about things, and may change their mind at the last minute (cold feet). I've always suggested that people take it slowly, and this goes for "bulls" too.

 

[SoCalCpl]

Glen is right about the clubs. We are going to a club in vegas this weekend that alows single guys, although there is also a couples only area. We have never been to one with single guys, but I have heard good things. Should be a good time...

 

[Glenn]

Glen is right about the clubs. We are going to a club in vegas this weekend that alows single guys, although there is also a couples only area. We have never been to one with single guys, but I have heard good things. Should be a good time...

Just a heads up about clubs that allow single guys:
- As I said earlier, the clubs that do allow single guys usually only allow them on Friday nights. A couple of reasons for this... the majority of couples don't want singles guys attending, and most people go on Saturday night. Some clubs are open other nights as well, but I don't remember ever hearing about one that allows single guys any other night but Friday.
- Because Friday night is not the busiest, there will be a disproportionate number of couples and single guys, ie, a lot more single guys than couples. This means a couple of things... first, couples have a lot to choose from, and second, the single guys have a lot of competition. Now, that really shouldn't scare off you single guys. Remember, the couples who go on Friday nights know what it's all about, so often times, it's really not too difficult for a single guy to "get lucky".
- Not all single guys go there to interact, some go just to watch. In fact, unless there is something "special" about you, you will not get lucky every Friday night, so don't feel bad if it's an "off night". I think it's best to go with a lower expectation, that way you won't feel as disappointed if things don't go they way you hope.
- About the guys... in my experience they are just normal guys, all sizes and shapes, etc, but more "normal" shaped than not, ie, VERY FEW bodybuilders or male models, in fact almost all will look a little on the jolly side (if you know what I mean).
- About the couples... pretty much the same as what I said about the guys, ie, all sizes and shapes. Saturday nights are usually when the more "showy" model-like couples/women come out.
- As Friday nights are not as busy, it is more like a bar than a night club. Saturday night is the night-club type night. So there will not be much (if any) dancing on Friday night. People just tend to mingle and chat.
- "Things" tend to get started a little earlier on Friday nights, probably because Friday's is more about SEX than it is about anything else. So people tend to start moving to the play area sometime between 11 and midnight. Now, different clubs have different rules for the play areas. What I mean here is how the single guys are allowed to (or how they are supposed to) interact when not specifically invited by a couple. Generally, EVERYONE should always ask before interacting, but of course you can use some common sense sometimes based on obvious observations. Some clubs may set aside a room where single guys are not supposed to enter without an invitation. Other clubs have rooms with doors that can be closed (closed doors always mean that nobody is allowed to enter). Some closed rooms have windows, and some windows have curtains that can be closed. As you can probably imagine, there are many variations between clubs, but in general they are actually very similar.

Of course, I've certainly not covered all of it, just a few things that I think that single guys (and couples too of course) should know about "single guy nights". So, if anyone has any other questions, feel free to ask, either public or private.

 

[wellhunginnyc]

Great post Glenn. I appreciate your input on my thread.

 

[I created a Monster]

Out of the 2 clubs in this area one allows single men ,but does have a couples only area.I too have fell for fakes on the internet.I have found that most cases its just a guy trying to get off or a closet gay guy trying to get some,but there are real couples out there that can be found.

 

[HotMrsJane]

Well...I'm one of the rare females who visit here...and we are a for real COUPLE. But I understand totally about fakes. Get alot of them here too. Being that I'm the female and handle all of the email/forum writing on all sites I go to...I've seen my share of fakers and pic collectors, single guys posing as couples, single bi ladies posing as swingers when they are just trying to get you to join their "website", single guys claiming they are bi, but are not, single guys claiming to be into cuckold, but really are only interested in fucking me and not at all interested in our "fantasy" play etc. I've seen it all. We have paid profiles on a couple sites...and there are fakers there too. What I've learned is....trust no one LOL.

We're quite selective though...and I have very strict rules on deciding who to play with. Pic exchange and right to the phone for a few convo's. I ask a few questions...and expect the same in return. I don't do phone sex....not my thing, and if someone goes in that direction...I cut it off and won't waste any more time with that person.

But...that's us. If your in the Jersey/Pa area anytime wellhung...pm me...would love to talk. And I promise...I won't jerk off while you're talking
to me LOL.

Jane