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Do You Think I Should Cheat On My Husband
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Hi Ms. Rwwilson66,
Re. your reasonable question:
First, you're a gorgeous woman. You have voluptuous big tits, and I like your leopard panty hose. You look sexy-plus, and it sounds like you have a healthy, perhaps-above-average, sex drive as well. Almost certainly you need more than your husband has to offer.
To answer your question: yes, of course I think you should "cheat" on your husband, and frequently.... with a black man who has a big cock (or black men who have big cocks), if that is what you desire.
If, however, you "cheat" on your husband — a better way to put it would be, expand your sexual horizons — behind his back, while attempting to keep it secret, that may result in distrust leading (conceivably) to destruction of your marriage. Thus, I suggest easing your husband into acceptance of his natural role as your cuckold. That is, I suggest easing him into a cuckold husband / hotwife form of marriage, in which he agrees it is your privilege and prerogative as a married woman to date, seduce, and fuck whomever you wish, while he also agrees (and actually does) remain faithful to you.
A way to start your husband down this path may be to mention you found two articles you thought were interesting, and ask him to read them then tell you what he thinks. They are:
The Science of Cuckoldry
by sex therapist and relationships counselor Susan Gower:
http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-science-of-cuckoldry/
The cuckold husband / hotwife phenomena,
by Dr. Cherry Lee, Ph.D.
http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-cuckold-phenomena/
(You can google them, if you find you can't link to them from this forum.)
Even if your husband doesn't agree immediately that it's something the two of you should pursue, the concepts expressed by these two authors are likely to circulate in the back of his mind.
As a second step down this path, I suggest putting your husband in a male chastity device and becoming his sole key holder. To do so, I suggest the direct approach with, perhaps, a conversation along these lines. You: "I want to own your penis, darling." Him: "You do. I don't have any lover but you." You: "That's not what I mean, sweetheart. I mean, I want to be the only one who has access to your penis. I don't like it that you masturbate behind my back." (Most if not all married men do this.) Him: "Um... I... um... er... I don't..." You (cutting off his attempts at denial): "Of course you do, baby. Ninety percent of men, certainly including married men, do that — and the rest are lying." Him (looking somewhat confused and, by now, perhaps red-faced): "What are you getting at?" You: "I want you to wear a chastity device for me, sweetheart... you know, a cock cage... and I want to be your sole key holder. Lots of married women require their husbands to wear chastity devices, and are their sole key holders. That way, I'll be able to unlock you and have sex with you whenever I feel like it, and I'll know your energy won't be dissipated by secretly playing with yourself behind my back."
Then, take action. Lots of male chastity devices are available online (avoid cheap Chinese knockoffs). More than one cuckold on this forum, on being locked in a "HolyTrainer" by his wife, has found that type to be very comfortable and secure. Some have pointed out that metal chastity devices (the "Queen's Keep," for instance... there are others) are better than plastic. You'll need to measure his penis and balls before ordering — before doing so, use an ice pack to shrink his weenie. (When it arrives, also use an ice pack to shrink his weenie, plus a lubricant [baby oil, perhaps], to slide his weenie into the device, which should be snug-fitting.)
Once you have your husband in a cock cage and are his sole key holder (you could wear your key on a chain around your neck, if this appeals to you, to remind him of your ownership of his soul), he will quickly become acutely aware of the need to please you so you'll reward him with release time — so you can fuck him or (for instance) allow him to masturbate in front of you (your preference), perhaps requiring him to ejaculate into your hand then lick up and swallow his semen. Soon, you can bring up the above two articles again, and once again ask him what his thoughts are on transitioning to a cuckold husband / hotwife form of marriage. If his answer is not to your liking, you'll be able to punish him by extending his time in his cock cage. Before long, it's likely he'll begin to coming around.
Good luck! And, please keep us updated regarding your progress.
—Custer
Disclaimer: I have no relationships of any kind with the manufacturers or distributors of male chastity devices, and gain nothing, financial nor otherwise, from suggesting the potential benefits of their use.
Re. your reasonable question:
rwwilson66 said:Do you think I should cheat on my husband. I fantasize about being fucked by a big black cock.
First, you're a gorgeous woman. You have voluptuous big tits, and I like your leopard panty hose. You look sexy-plus, and it sounds like you have a healthy, perhaps-above-average, sex drive as well. Almost certainly you need more than your husband has to offer.
To answer your question: yes, of course I think you should "cheat" on your husband, and frequently.... with a black man who has a big cock (or black men who have big cocks), if that is what you desire.
If, however, you "cheat" on your husband — a better way to put it would be, expand your sexual horizons — behind his back, while attempting to keep it secret, that may result in distrust leading (conceivably) to destruction of your marriage. Thus, I suggest easing your husband into acceptance of his natural role as your cuckold. That is, I suggest easing him into a cuckold husband / hotwife form of marriage, in which he agrees it is your privilege and prerogative as a married woman to date, seduce, and fuck whomever you wish, while he also agrees (and actually does) remain faithful to you.
A way to start your husband down this path may be to mention you found two articles you thought were interesting, and ask him to read them then tell you what he thinks. They are:
The Science of Cuckoldry
by sex therapist and relationships counselor Susan Gower:
http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-science-of-cuckoldry/
The cuckold husband / hotwife phenomena,
by Dr. Cherry Lee, Ph.D.
http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-cuckold-phenomena/
(You can google them, if you find you can't link to them from this forum.)
Even if your husband doesn't agree immediately that it's something the two of you should pursue, the concepts expressed by these two authors are likely to circulate in the back of his mind.
As a second step down this path, I suggest putting your husband in a male chastity device and becoming his sole key holder. To do so, I suggest the direct approach with, perhaps, a conversation along these lines. You: "I want to own your penis, darling." Him: "You do. I don't have any lover but you." You: "That's not what I mean, sweetheart. I mean, I want to be the only one who has access to your penis. I don't like it that you masturbate behind my back." (Most if not all married men do this.) Him: "Um... I... um... er... I don't..." You (cutting off his attempts at denial): "Of course you do, baby. Ninety percent of men, certainly including married men, do that — and the rest are lying." Him (looking somewhat confused and, by now, perhaps red-faced): "What are you getting at?" You: "I want you to wear a chastity device for me, sweetheart... you know, a cock cage... and I want to be your sole key holder. Lots of married women require their husbands to wear chastity devices, and are their sole key holders. That way, I'll be able to unlock you and have sex with you whenever I feel like it, and I'll know your energy won't be dissipated by secretly playing with yourself behind my back."
Then, take action. Lots of male chastity devices are available online (avoid cheap Chinese knockoffs). More than one cuckold on this forum, on being locked in a "HolyTrainer" by his wife, has found that type to be very comfortable and secure. Some have pointed out that metal chastity devices (the "Queen's Keep," for instance... there are others) are better than plastic. You'll need to measure his penis and balls before ordering — before doing so, use an ice pack to shrink his weenie. (When it arrives, also use an ice pack to shrink his weenie, plus a lubricant [baby oil, perhaps], to slide his weenie into the device, which should be snug-fitting.)
Once you have your husband in a cock cage and are his sole key holder (you could wear your key on a chain around your neck, if this appeals to you, to remind him of your ownership of his soul), he will quickly become acutely aware of the need to please you so you'll reward him with release time — so you can fuck him or (for instance) allow him to masturbate in front of you (your preference), perhaps requiring him to ejaculate into your hand then lick up and swallow his semen. Soon, you can bring up the above two articles again, and once again ask him what his thoughts are on transitioning to a cuckold husband / hotwife form of marriage. If his answer is not to your liking, you'll be able to punish him by extending his time in his cock cage. Before long, it's likely he'll begin to coming around.
Good luck! And, please keep us updated regarding your progress.
—Custer
Disclaimer: I have no relationships of any kind with the manufacturers or distributors of male chastity devices, and gain nothing, financial nor otherwise, from suggesting the potential benefits of their use.
I have enjoyed several cheating wives but I always recommend full disclosure to cuckold. It is best if he knows and accepts his new role.
But if you know he will not accept it, then do it anyway. If you don't try it, you will forever be thinking you missed out on something good. You may find that you do not enjoy the "cheating" or the erotic orgasms, but you can always go back to husband.
But if you know he will not accept it, then do it anyway. If you don't try it, you will forever be thinking you missed out on something good. You may find that you do not enjoy the "cheating" or the erotic orgasms, but you can always go back to husband.
I have always believed that it is much better if your husband is involved and/or knows about what you want out of life with regards to your sexuality. "Cheating" can create so many problems in a marriage/relationship that unless your husband is totally oblivious to what you do I always have been on the side of very "open" communication. Have you ever had any discussions "pillow talk" about some additional sexual activity? GTR
1st find out if your husband is the cuckold accepting kind, if no, hmm, you risk a lot. Try to condition him first. If he does have cuckolding gene and or you've opened his eyes to it, then by all means, cheat, cheat and cheat some more and make sure he eats your fucked pussy ******* every time. It will give you the best oral orgasms you've ever had.
TalkUOTE="rwwilson66, post: 689229, member: 672523"]Do you think I should cheat on my husband. I fantasize about being fucked by a big black cock.
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[/QUOTE]rwwilson66 said:Do you think I should cheat on my husband. I fantasize about being fucked by a big black cock.
Talk about it first sloppy seconds is good.you would have done it eny wayrwwilson66 said:Do you think I should cheat on my husband. I fantasize about being fucked by a big black cock.
