If you guys would stop arguing about the gender of members, and would allow others to express their point of view without "smacking them down" because "their beliefs are not 'your beliefs", then DC would be a less threatening place to post.
I get a lot of e-mails from other females who say that they don't like the "put-downs", so they frequent the site less and less often. Some don't log in or post any more, but just do a quick visit to see if something interests them, then they go back to their favourite websites where they "feel welcome to post".
There are also many women who won't join up at all when they see all the abusive stuff.
Why live amongst it? Females love sex, but want to see a bit of love as well, b4 they will let a guy screw them on a long-term basis.