Thanks for your participation and candor. I appreciate that you enjoy the submissive aspects of the cuckold experience, your preference will not bias my analysis of the data I'm seeking. I realize that this poll does not necessarily meet the rigors of typical scrutiny but it is nonetheless, helpful.
Anyway, after a decade and a half of engaging cuckolds and hotwives, I realized that I have for the most part neglected my interpersonal relationship with the cuckold. In other words, 1/3 of the experience has been lost to me in my quest for white pussy! Part of this is because of relocating every few years and not having the dwell time to really get to know the couple as much as I'd like to. But for the most part it's been egocentric lust for white pussy and focusing my energies on being the ideal bull in terms of physicality, sexuality, and performance.
I used to wonder what made the cuckold give his wife to me, but never did I actually ask him. I just assumed a deranged mindset or weakness that I was all too happy to exploit. If he was letting guys fuck his wife, well hell count me in and not only am I going to fuck her, but I’m going to fuck her like it’s the last pussy on earth.
But over the years and with experience I’ve come to appreciate the cuck’s point of view and experience. Sure some of it is pure homo-eroticism, but there are just as many cucks who don’t secretly crave the bull’s cock. There are many motivations, in fact I just got done texting a cuck I’ve been in communications with for over a year and tomorrow is our big day. As it turns out, he has severe ED because of diabetes and hypertension so he can’t predictably perform and sought me out. In the final analysis, stumbling around in darkness is fine but being enlightened and engaging my hotwife and cuck where they really are is much better for everyone I think.