Cuckoldry vs. wife-sharing.

[Son of John]

I still see a lot of confusion about what is actually Cuckoldry, and what is not. Some seem to interpret cuckolding as any situation in which another man fucks your wife. But, I still maintain that many cases of wife-sharing do not qualify for being cuckoldry.

We all understand what "wife-swapping" is. That is when two couples meet and the husbands fuck each others' wives, usually in front of each other. This is not cuckoldry, since there is no "cheating". The husbands are willingly trading their wives' pussies for the chance at the other woman's pussy.

Then there is "wife-sharing" in which a husband willingly shares his wife's pussy with another man, or other MEN, and usually while he is there to watch. And even though the wife may be the only "pussy" there for however many men there are, it still does not fall into the area of cuckoldry, because the husband is a willing participant.

Real cuckoldry, in my opinion, is when the wife fucks with other men, behind her husband's back, sometimes without his knowing about it, and even when he does, in situations where he cannot control her. I believe the true cuckold is a husband who does not want other men to fuck his wife and who suffers when they do, but who is also powerless to keep it from happening.

For the record, I have experienced all the types outlined above and I have to say that the second, "wife-sharing" is far and above the most enjoyable for me. I love to watch other men fuck my wife, and I don't suffer when they do.

 

[SoonToBe]

To me the 2 are almost synonymous.

I define the difference in Cuckoldry where the wife expresses a desire for denial of her husband in preference for another man. This denial can take many forms including hurt, pain, chastity, cheating (unknown to the husband) but at it's root I have always felt it is centered around a wife who will say no to her husband in preference or denial of another man.

In my situation - I totally enjoy the aspects of denial and then the aspects of her flaunting her sexual activity in front of me.

To me - being a cuck is accepting that at times (can be infrequent or a continual state) where the wife wants sex with another guy and will prefer that to her husband. I think everything else builds from there.

I wife-sharing or swinging I think the level of denial is to a much lesser degree - not one of preference of another guy but more in the simple inclusion of another guy, and not excluding the husband.

Just my humble opinion.

 

[lifelong cuck]

I am a real Cuckold

I still see a lot of confusion about what is actually Cuckoldry, and what is not. Some seem to interpret cuckolding as any situation in which another man fucks your wife. But, I still maintain that many cases of wife-sharing do not qualify for being cuckoldry.

We all understand what "wife-swapping" is. That is when two couples meet and the husbands fuck each others' wives, usually in front of each other. This is not cuckoldry, since there is no "cheating". The husbands are willingly trading their wives' pussies for the chance at the other woman's pussy.

Then there is "wife-sharing" in which a husband willingly shares his wife's pussy with another man, or other MEN, and usually while he is there to watch. And even though the wife may be the only "pussy" there for however many men there are, it still does not fall into the area of cuckoldry, because the husband is a willing participant.

Real cuckoldry, in my opinion, is when the wife fucks with other men, behind her husband's back, sometimes without his knowing about it, and even when he does, in situations where he cannot control her. I believe the true cuckold is a husband who does not want other men to fuck his wife and who suffers when they do, but who is also powerless to keep it from happening.

For the record, I have experienced all the types outlined above and I have to say that the second, "wife-sharing" is far and above the most enjoyable for me. I love to watch other men fuck my wife, and I don't suffer when they do.

My wife trained me as a real Cuckold. She cheated on me before we were married and cuckolded me from our honeymoon onwards. I was powerless to stop her cuckolding me other than to divorce her. At first she denied me all knowledge of her cheating but when she was sure enough of me she stopped caring and just fucked whoever she wanted without regard for me or how people perceived me. She refused to have an open marriage even when I'd promised I would be faithful. She told me if I loved her I could never share her with someone else, all the while fucking dozens of guys in a true cuckold fashion.
A wife Cuckolds her husband when she screws other men without the knowledge and or consent of her husband. Usually a husband will learn he is a cuckold and at that point decide to accept the cuckold horns and wear them for the rest of their marriage or leave his wife. All Cuckolds I know, on learning they were Cuckolds, gradually accepted their sexual inadeqacy and at this point the wife withdraws sex from the Cuckold if she was still allowing him contact with her.
In my case at this point my wife then moved to the level of humiliating me, taking pleasure in letting me know I was being cuckolded and at the same time telling me I was sexually inadequate, and as such it was my fault she didn't want to have sex with me. I accpeted this rationale and felt she was fully justified in seeking sex with men who could sexually please and satisfy her. A sort of Sexual Stockholm syndrome.

In a cuckold marriage the wife has all control and power within the sexual relationship, unless the husband uses the one and only card, divorce, the wife will treat him wihtout respect and behave as a single woman within the protection of her married domain.

Wife-sharing is when control is shared or even held by the husband, a cuckold is a powerless wimp whose wife has both the balls and cock of her husband and sole use of her pussy.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Lifelong cuck,

A sort of Sexual Stockholm syndrome.

Perfect. This encapsulates your relationship with your wife in the fewest words possible. I like it.

—Custer

 

[SrBilong]

I'm glad you posted this. Me being brand new to this i kind of thought of cucking and wife-sharing in the same sense. Though both sound like tons of fun, as a bull i think i'd be much more turned on knowing i'm using some poor guys wife and there is nothing he can do or say to stop me.

 

[crustystef]

The real cuckold husband is where another man has left a baby in the husbands home and he thinks it is his. Just like the bird.

 

[lifelong cuck]

Disliking your cuckolder

I'm glad you posted this. Me being brand new to this i kind of thought of cucking and wife-sharing in the same sense. Though both sound like tons of fun, as a bull i think i'd be much more turned on knowing i'm using some poor guys wife and there is nothing he can do or say to stop me.

Yes I can see how you'd enjoy that, I know that a few guys I really disliked got off all the more knowing I disliked them so much yet my wife ignored my wishes and kept on fucking them. It was all the better for them knowing I was so powerless over who my wife fucked and that I had pleaded with her not to do them again. I think my wife got off on it too as she always told the guys I disliked them and had begged her not to have sex with them again.

 

[lifelong cuck]

Another way

The real cuckold husband is where another man has left a baby in the husbands home and he thinks it is his. Just like the bird.

Yes, that is the ulimate cuckold, but it is also really bad knowing the baby growing in your wife's belly isn't yours because she hasn't had sex with you in over two years. All the more so when all your friends and family know too.

 

[lifelong cuck]

Thanks Custer

Lifelong cuck,



Perfect. This encapsulates your relationship with your wife in the fewest words possible. I like it.

—Custer

It occurred to me as I was writing that reply, that my emotions over the years had gone from anger, rejection and feeling permanently deprived to - one of total empathy with HER. I saw that I was too small and ineffective in our love-making for HER. I felt SHE needed other men who could satisfy HER and I wanted HER to have the wonderful sex life SHE was capable of but I was incapable fo giving HER.

As I wrote I saw I have so much been a sexual Stockholm victim, not that I'm complaining about it long term, she conditioned me so well that now being a CUCKOLD is all that gives me sexual arousal and satisfaction.

 

[lifelong cuck]

Doctor Doctor!

The real cuckold husband is where another man has left a baby in the husbands home and he thinks it is his. Just like the bird.

A Cuckold goes to his doctor and says,'Doctor my wife is pregnant and we haven't had sex in over two years, could it be something in the air'?

'Yes' says the doctor ......... 'your wife's legs'!

 

[lifelong cuck]

Wife's long term BF I detested

I'm glad you posted this. Me being brand new to this i kind of thought of cucking and wife-sharing in the same sense. Though both sound like tons of fun, as a bull i think i'd be much more turned on knowing i'm using some poor guys wife and there is nothing he can do or say to stop me.

As a bull I'm sure you'll enjoy this. One of my wife's long term BF's (over 7 years) told me during an argument with him over fucking my wife that he had 'cucked' me only a few inches away without me knowing. I did remember the night as it later turned into such a memorable occasion and I had my suspicions at the time that something was going on but I never suspected that he had his cock in my wife.

Anyway, there were 5 of us at the pub and we'd all been drinking except me as the driver, I only had a couple of beers. On the drive back, Gary - her BF - had my wife sitting on his lap, a friend beside him in the back seat, the reason my wife was on his lap(4 seater car back then). Her friend Doris was in the front with me. I 'sensed' from people's reactions that something was going on and suspected that Gary was feeling my wife up as I drove, knowing she'd have no knickers on it would be easy for him.

Gary boasted to me later that he'd had his cock buried deep in her pussy for most of the drive home, but what pleased him most was everybody in the car knew his cock was in my wife ..... except me.

 

[wnnabe1]

My first wife fucked around with numerous men. We split up after her affairs were found out, but I practically begged her to come back to me & I would forgive her everytime. Does this make me a cuckold, or just an idiot???