My wife was recently fucked with my knowledge by a young man around 25 years old. My wife is 41 but in very good shape and has a body that many 20 year olds would want. We talked about doing this when he sort of made it reasonably clear that he fancied my wife.....it's a long story. Point of this posting is that a week or so ago, he arranged to meet my wife "secretly" in our garage one night when I was supposed to be asleep. He ended up fucking her......cunt and ass. He had never experienced anal sex and lucky for him my wife enjoys it. He thinks I don't know about it and when he had finished with my wife and left, we had a really hot fuck while she told me what he had done to her. Does this make me a cuckold, or are we just indulging in some kinky sexual exploits?? Anyone got a view?
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Is he a cuckold
My answer to you would be that if you are willingly sharing your wife's pussy with another man, then you are not actually a cuckold, since cuckoldom suggests a certain victimization of the husband.
I would describe you as a "wife-sharer" which covers a broader range of activities. A wife-sharer could be a husband who actively seeks-out other men to fuck his wife and does not feel anger or loss because of it. In fact, his own desire for her is usually much greater, just because he knows that other men are fucking her.
Through three marriages, I shared my wives with other men in some way or another, from such seemingly innocent behavior as taking them to nudist clubs to show them naked to other men, to setting-up meetings with men I had met myself, wherein they fucked her while I was there to watch.
In my mind, there is a big difference between being a cuckold and a wife-sharer.
My answer to you would be that if you are willingly sharing your wife's pussy with another man, then you are not actually a cuckold, since cuckoldom suggests a certain victimization of the husband.
I would describe you as a "wife-sharer" which covers a broader range of activities. A wife-sharer could be a husband who actively seeks-out other men to fuck his wife and does not feel anger or loss because of it. In fact, his own desire for her is usually much greater, just because he knows that other men are fucking her.
Through three marriages, I shared my wives with other men in some way or another, from such seemingly innocent behavior as taking them to nudist clubs to show them naked to other men, to setting-up meetings with men I had met myself, wherein they fucked her while I was there to watch.
In my mind, there is a big difference between being a cuckold and a wife-sharer.
Thankfully, dictionaries exist....
Jangles,
The replies that have come back in response to your question illustrate the truth of Indy Hubby's comment.
This is the correct answer. You can look it up in a dictionary — it will save you the inconvenience and uncertainty of having to somehow take the average of a broad spectrum of inconsistent replies. Wikipedia has a more comprehensive discussion — you can look it up there, too.
—Custer
Jangles,
Indy Hubby said:
The replies that have come back in response to your question illustrate the truth of Indy Hubby's comment.
Indy Hubby said:
This is the correct answer. You can look it up in a dictionary — it will save you the inconvenience and uncertainty of having to somehow take the average of a broad spectrum of inconsistent replies. Wikipedia has a more comprehensive discussion — you can look it up there, too.
—Custer
Saraha said:
Hi Saraha......we are not really into dating as such. Truth is we haven't actually discussed it as it's something we haven't given any thought. I don't think either of us would go that route but would continue to respond to situations where someone shows an interest in fucking her after having met her somehow socially, or through a business environment. Hope that makes sense.
She does dress well and has no problems having an orgasm. In fact, she she told me that her orgasm was intensified by having a new cock in her and me knowing about it, along with the thought that I would be fucking her after someone else had been there. She said it sent her "over the edge" so to speak. If she was going to date men however, I understand your comments on the need for sexy clothes.
Thanks for your reply.
It's happened again. Same sort of arrangement as the first time. It really is pretty hot stuff...especially afterwards with my wife. She tells me he hammers way at her like a rabbit! This time she was she was pretty tender afterwards.....around both holes. We seem to be getting into this. Just thought there might be a few who would be interested in hearing an update.
Cool.... but, are you a cuckold yet?
Jangles,
Regarding your initial post:
My congratulations to your wife for taking a 25 year-old lover. Good for her! She has the right idea.
Hey, whatever works.... but I hope your garage is a lot more comfortable (and warmer) than mine. Do you have a spare bed out there, or what?
Yes, he is a lucky man....
Again, whatever works. No doubt that made it spicier for him.
Regarding your post of today:
Very nice
.... it sounds like your wife is getting into it. Maybe next Saturday you could go to a movie (or something), so your wife could invite her young lover in and fuck him in her marital bed...? I mean, meeting her lover in her garage seems sort of uncool for a cuckoldress of your wife's stature.
To return to your original question:
Are you getting closer to accepting that you are your wife's cuckold, or are you still dithering?
Incidentally, regarding your comment:
Does your wife find that enjoyable — i.e., is her lover allowing her sufficient time to cum, perhaps multiple times? If not, you might suggest to her she control the action by taking her lover on top so she can move in whatever ways please her. Your wife should easily be able to insist on this, because her status is higher than his — i.e., because she is an older more-experienced married woman. On top, your wife would also be in a position to insist he "go slower," or even lie still as she fucks him actively. In addition, she would also be in a position, if she senses her lover is about to cum (but she hasn't), to abort his orgasm by squeeaing the base of his cock tightly, or reaching down a bit farther, grasping his balls, and pulling them down (i.e., toward his feet). This may require some experimentation, but in principle, it should easily be possible for your wife to abort her young lover's "too soon" orgasms if he's been cumming prematurely. You might suggest to her she say something like, "not yet, darling.... ladies first, you know...."
Thanks for your interesting update. I hope you'll keep us posted, so to speak.
—Custer
Jangles,
Regarding your initial post:
jangles said:
My congratulations to your wife for taking a 25 year-old lover. Good for her! She has the right idea.
jangles said:
Hey, whatever works.... but I hope your garage is a lot more comfortable (and warmer) than mine. Do you have a spare bed out there, or what?
jangles said:
Yes, he is a lucky man....
jangles said:
Again, whatever works. No doubt that made it spicier for him.
Regarding your post of today:
jangles said:
Very nice
.... it sounds like your wife is getting into it. Maybe next Saturday you could go to a movie (or something), so your wife could invite her young lover in and fuck him in her marital bed...? I mean, meeting her lover in her garage seems sort of uncool for a cuckoldress of your wife's stature.To return to your original question:
jangles said:
Are you getting closer to accepting that you are your wife's cuckold, or are you still dithering?
Incidentally, regarding your comment:
jangles said:
Does your wife find that enjoyable — i.e., is her lover allowing her sufficient time to cum, perhaps multiple times? If not, you might suggest to her she control the action by taking her lover on top so she can move in whatever ways please her. Your wife should easily be able to insist on this, because her status is higher than his — i.e., because she is an older more-experienced married woman. On top, your wife would also be in a position to insist he "go slower," or even lie still as she fucks him actively. In addition, she would also be in a position, if she senses her lover is about to cum (but she hasn't), to abort his orgasm by squeeaing the base of his cock tightly, or reaching down a bit farther, grasping his balls, and pulling them down (i.e., toward his feet). This may require some experimentation, but in principle, it should easily be possible for your wife to abort her young lover's "too soon" orgasms if he's been cumming prematurely. You might suggest to her she say something like, "not yet, darling.... ladies first, you know...."
Thanks for your interesting update. I hope you'll keep us posted, so to speak.
—Custer
I don't think you are a Cuckold in the sense that people on this site take it. Perhaps in the literal sense you are. Your wife is a Hotwife,and you should celebrate that. Your particular scenario is one that I have fantasised about with my wife for years. My wife with a young Lover. in our case it will probably never happen. My wife is too straight laced. So I salute you. I hope the both of you enjoy this , whatever name you put to it. Best wishes
Thank you for everyone for the comments and your interest.....it's much appreciated.
I suppose meeting in our garage is a bit starnge but that's how its sort of panned out. My wife tells me he is extremely nervous and I somehow don't think he will come into our home and fuck her in our marital bed. As I have mentioned, he hammers away at her and the fucking is kinda fast and furious.......a quick illicit fuck so to speak. On both ocassions he has fucked her from behind as she bends over for him and supports herself by placing her hands on a small bench in the garage. She likes it from behind and in that way he also has easy access to both holes. On this last ocassion, he pushed a finger up her asshole while using her cunt and that got my wife off pretty hard....it always does!. Seems like he's starting to experiment! It also seems like he's quite hooked on fucking my wife up the ass because both times he's ended up cumming in her ass and apparantly doesn't waste much time getting his cock in there! She has sort of "trained' him to open her ass up a little before getting his cock up there and hammering away at it!
Anyway, we've both been turned on by it and I suppose we'll indulge again as long as the young man is keen!
I suppose meeting in our garage is a bit starnge but that's how its sort of panned out. My wife tells me he is extremely nervous and I somehow don't think he will come into our home and fuck her in our marital bed. As I have mentioned, he hammers away at her and the fucking is kinda fast and furious.......a quick illicit fuck so to speak. On both ocassions he has fucked her from behind as she bends over for him and supports herself by placing her hands on a small bench in the garage. She likes it from behind and in that way he also has easy access to both holes. On this last ocassion, he pushed a finger up her asshole while using her cunt and that got my wife off pretty hard....it always does!. Seems like he's starting to experiment! It also seems like he's quite hooked on fucking my wife up the ass because both times he's ended up cumming in her ass and apparantly doesn't waste much time getting his cock in there! She has sort of "trained' him to open her ass up a little before getting his cock up there and hammering away at it!
Anyway, we've both been turned on by it and I suppose we'll indulge again as long as the young man is keen!
