My new young wife, Lauren and I had just celebrated out 1st year of marriage, and even though we had terrific rapport with each other there was something missing. I was getting tired of asking her what was wrong, and I didn't think I should be asking someone I loved if there was something wrong. I mean if I truly loved her then I should know what was wrong. Finally I told her that I thought we needed to seek professional help with our marriage. She cried a little hugging me telling me that we didn't need any help and I told her then if we don't it won't hurt, but if there was something I could do to please her more we might be able to find out about it with help. I found someone, I actually settled on a female doctor as I thought Lauren would be more accepting to someone of her own gender.
We saw the doctor together twice and then she wanted to see each of us separately for the next two sessions. I got a call at work and it was the doctor asking if we could come in together the day after tomorrow. Well, I had a very important meeting and asked her if she could be available in the early evening say about 7 or 8? She agreed since we had session times that were well planned out, so we agreed to come by at 8 on Friday evening.
When we got to her office she coaxed Lauren to explain to me what she had told the doctor. She stuttered and stammered, and then finally said, "I love you and I want to be with you always. You make me laugh, you always think about me and I love everything we do, but I really miss having sex with someone that is much larger than you. There I said it and please darling don't hate me for having those desires.
I told her that I didn't hate her, I could never hate her, and if that would make her happy she could have anytime that she needed to have sex with someone that could please her more than I could. She looked like she was about to cry, when the doctor broke in and said she hadn't told me everything. My wife looked at me and said, "Darling if I was to have sex with someone you would never be able to be sure that is was sex and not me just using you for your money, so I would like to have sex with someone in front of you so that you could see that it is just for sex and nothing else. I said you want me to watch you? She kind of smiled and nodded through tear stained eyes adding if you just saw me having sex you could see that it was just physical.
I put my arms around her and told her that she was young and she had needs. I'm older and I also have needs, different but needs still the same. If I expect you to understand and help provide me with my needs, then I should be able to understand and help provide you with your needs. We hugged and kissed and yes I have to admit that we both cried. The doctor gave us a name of someone that may be able to help us with our predicament.
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We saw the doctor together twice and then she wanted to see each of us separately for the next two sessions. I got a call at work and it was the doctor asking if we could come in together the day after tomorrow. Well, I had a very important meeting and asked her if she could be available in the early evening say about 7 or 8? She agreed since we had session times that were well planned out, so we agreed to come by at 8 on Friday evening.
When we got to her office she coaxed Lauren to explain to me what she had told the doctor. She stuttered and stammered, and then finally said, "I love you and I want to be with you always. You make me laugh, you always think about me and I love everything we do, but I really miss having sex with someone that is much larger than you. There I said it and please darling don't hate me for having those desires.
I told her that I didn't hate her, I could never hate her, and if that would make her happy she could have anytime that she needed to have sex with someone that could please her more than I could. She looked like she was about to cry, when the doctor broke in and said she hadn't told me everything. My wife looked at me and said, "Darling if I was to have sex with someone you would never be able to be sure that is was sex and not me just using you for your money, so I would like to have sex with someone in front of you so that you could see that it is just for sex and nothing else. I said you want me to watch you? She kind of smiled and nodded through tear stained eyes adding if you just saw me having sex you could see that it was just physical.
I put my arms around her and told her that she was young and she had needs. I'm older and I also have needs, different but needs still the same. If I expect you to understand and help provide me with my needs, then I should be able to understand and help provide you with your needs. We hugged and kissed and yes I have to admit that we both cried. The doctor gave us a name of someone that may be able to help us with our predicament.
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