cheating wife

[newcuck91355]

hi,
i found some erotic e-mails my wife wrote to a former boss who has recently relocated across country. i confronted her and she said it was all fanatsy and she fell into the trap because of my lack of attention of her (which i admit). in our follow up talks i have openly admitted to her that i wish to share her with another man sexually. she isnt opposed to the idea and in bed she openly tells me how much it turns her on. out of bed she is more hesitant and says she wants to make sure romance is part of our exploration. what should be my next steps to help her open up and do what i think she wants to do?

 

[ScottyBo]

hi,
i found some erotic e-mails my wife wrote to a former boss who has recently relocated across country. i confronted her and she said it was all fanatsy and she fell into the trap because of my lack of attention of her (which i admit). in our follow up talks i have openly admitted to her that i wish to share her with another man sexually. she isnt opposed to the idea and in bed she openly tells me how much it turns her on. out of bed she is more hesitant and says she wants to make sure romance is part of our exploration. what should be my next steps to help her open up and do what i think she wants to do?

When you say 'romance' do you mean your wife wants another guy (preferably black) to be romantic? If so, that may be the easiest and, therefore, fastest way for things to happen. What she says in bed during the heat of the moment can be drastically different from her thoughts out of bed and in the practical world. In addition, listen to what she has said - your lack of attention in the past caused her 'dalliance' with her former boss. You may find that some 'planned, benign neglect' will cause a similar situation which, added to romance from a black (or blacks) would be more than enough to motivate her to spread her legs for another man.

My first wife and I married without much experience and one of her bedtime regrets was she didn't get her brains fucked out prior to marriage. She would drop hints during some heated playtime about going to a singles' bar to see if she could get picked up. I knew what she was intimating and was aroused by it so I gradually kept being physically aloof while making sure she had every chance to be around a lot of flirting, lurid males. Fortunately she was one of those rare women with a simply incredible body and relatively good looks (if one considers 36D-25-36 a good body) and she loved dancing - bingo! She was getting fucked once a week by another guy in no time (I feigned ignorance but knew what was going on).

 

[newcuck91355]

When you say 'romance' do you mean your wife wants another guy (preferably black) to be romantic? If so, that may be the easiest and, therefore, fastest way for things to happen. What she says in bed during the heat of the moment can be drastically different from her thoughts out of bed and in the practical world. In addition, listen to what she has said - your lack of attention in the past caused her 'dalliance' with her former boss. You may find that some 'planned, benign neglect' will cause a similar situation which, added to romance from a black (or blacks) would be more than enough to motivate her to spread her legs for another man.

My first wife and I married without much experience and one of her bedtime regrets was she didn't get her brains fucked out prior to marriage. She would drop hints during some heated playtime about going to a singles' bar to see if she could get picked up. I knew what she was intimating and was aroused by it so I gradually kept being physically aloof while making sure she had every chance to be around a lot of flirting, lurid males. Fortunately she was one of those rare women with a simply incredible body and relatively good looks (if one considers 36D-25-36 a good body) and she loved dancing - bingo! She was getting fucked once a week by another guy in no time (I feigned ignorance but knew what was going on).

she likes romance at the begining of sex (i.e. flowers, candles and the like) she is only really vocal about her desires for another man when she is turned on. out of bed she has openly said that going to a club and her flirting/dancing with other men sounds like fun but that she would only want me sexually. she said she would feel "threatned" by another man joining us in bed. i found that odd being that i am the one that will have the perceived competition in bed with her. not sure what she meant by that just that she said two mens ego's in bed can be a bad thing. lately i told her i would enjoy her going out with a friend and flirting and coming home turned on after working a bar with a g/f. she said she liked that idea as well. what do you think? how close is this for a real time event? do you think she is really into it or just playing?

 

[ScottyBo]

she likes romance at the begining of sex (i.e. flowers, candles and the like) she is only really vocal about her desires for another man when she is turned on. out of bed she has openly said that going to a club and her flirting/dancing with other men sounds like fun but that she would only want me sexually. she said she would feel "threatned" by another man joining us in bed. i found that odd being that i am the one that will have the perceived competition in bed with her. not sure what she meant by that just that she said two mens ego's in bed can be a bad thing. lately i told her i would enjoy her going out with a friend and flirting and coming home turned on after working a bar with a g/f. she said she liked that idea as well. what do you think? how close is this for a real time event? do you think she is really into it or just playing?

At least she is entertaining the idea. If you want it to happen then you'll just have to let it happen. Make very sure she knows you are serious and not just saying things for a quick arousal. And don't be surprised if she does it (get laid) and doesn't tell you about it. She may just want to enjoy a little world of her own where she can have a guy to herself without sharing everything with you. But for now the important thing is that you make sure she knows without a doubt that you are serious about her going out. If she really wants to do it and is convinced you want it also she'll do it but in HER time.