I've always found the idea of my Mrs cheating on me a turn on, but since we've been in the hotwife lifestyle 1 year & explored new ideas - The fantasy keeps getting more defined & demeaning.
I'm not the guy who wants to sit in a cuck chair & watch her have sex, whilst filming & saying over & over "you like that." This seems to be the norm on amatuer porn but it wrecks the moment & I know it can't be great for the wife.
Due to my anxiety, my Mrs initially did all her dates by herself. Half because I'd be too anxious to attend half because I wanted her to experience the date, flirting, the sex for herself - not as an act for me. It was the perfect way to start. It doesn't get me hard when she leaves for a date, it's still a massive turn on, but personally I'd rather catch her doing it behind my back. Over the years I've spoken to or heard of wives who are just addicted to sex, get married & after a short period just go back to their addiction which means they have to cheat. It's not even about moving on or leaving their husband it's just the urge for sexual encounters is stronger than the ethics of "keep our wedding vows". In the same way gambling addicts know it's negative but can't help themselves. Anytime she's out of the house & could potentially see a guy to fuck I want her to think of everything I've done wrong or that she doesn't like - and get an attitude of "fuck my fiancés feelings, he deserves this, I deserve this."
She's had many 1-1 dates with strangers, fucked guys bare & came home with cum inside her; we've gone to clubs together & she's been gangbanged by strangers multiple weekends in a row (9 at once is the record). All of this is a massive turn on, especially the clubs - as I'm less cucked & more inviting strangers in & getting to watch them treat her like a sl*t right in front of me, whilst keeping them in line. Although sometimes it's a shame because the men in the clubs can be too respectful our of fear or being told off or kicked out. Sometimes I just want a guy to grab her by the hair force her to her knees & shove his cock in her mouth & then say "whose next?" to the line of strangers standing around; Or just bend her over & fuck her bare without even asking because he thinks she's the type not to care - she'd probably enjoy it. I read about a woman who cucked her husband by not taking the pill for a month & on her most fertile days set up 4-5 dates 3 days a row & let strangers cum inside her, after the last date she took the morning after pill; It was all just to have the thrill of knowing one of those men would have impregnated her against her husband's will & behind his back - I can't say I didn't love reading it.
All this aside, the most I've ever felt turned on & physically affected by the swinging, was when she confessed she had cheated behind my back with a guy in work, someone she's always talked about being attracted to, who we've had issues with in the past of me thinking she had cheated. Part of it still bothers me because it's not through our swinging app but real life; that real life betrayal & humiliation was the most alive feeling I've experienced. It was like a panic attack at the same time as being overwhelmingly turned on. I could barely breathe. She put her sexual appetite & his pleasure above her loyalty to me. I want her to do this so much that it rewires her brain & it becomes her norm. It's exactly what I wanted her to become, I wanted her to cheat. Not care about me & lie. I just want to be cheated on, I love how it feels. I want her to promise not to do it again & then send me a photo of his cum dripping out of her in a hotel room with the caption "Don't ever tell me who I can & can't fuck". Our life & relationship is pretty great as is; when it comes to sex I want it to be 100% adulterous, I want her to have literally 0 sexual loyalty to me. I love being cheated on & she really loves it too. She has told me she enjoys the texts behind my back & lying to me about it all. Hearing this I was over the moon because I feel like at some point now it's going to happen where she just becomes used to cheating on me because it's far more fun than to tell me she has a date on Monday night, than it is to just slip out & not tell me until afterwards.
It's such a turn on when she's mean, comparing me to men & admitting how much more she likes them. It doesn't "feel good" to hear it, it feels pretty shit most of the time. but that feeling is addictive. It means I know she's being honest, I know she's really enjoying him. I wish she had an office job with lots of men so she could just flirt all day & enjoy affairs with tons of men & keep evidence for when she confesses, a day, a week, a month, a year later.
I want her to think "Would this hurt his feelings? Yes, does that matter more than a quick bit of fun for me? Not even slightly." And then after I've got over it, she thinks "He's accepted it so now I can do it again & go further this time." See a guy we both used to know from school on a night out & think "I'm not even that into him but how wrong would it be if I cheated with him?! Ha that'll be fun". Tell me to get dinner ready for 7pm & then at 7:15pm when I'm pissed off wondering where she is, she calls me & all I can hear is her in a bar or at dinner with another guy. Going out for drinks to celebrate my birthday & then after a drink or two she goes the bathroom & I wait & wait sitting there alone thinking "where is she". She asked her boyfriend to meet her outside the bar & got in a taxi with him to his place, or just walked off with him to another nightclub. I'd get a photo of them together at another bar, their arms around eachother. It would feel so embarrassing & humiliating & I know she'd love it.
In the moment I'd have to suffer so she & her lover can enjoy the thrill - whilst I know as soon as I get home & read her messages & see the pictures I'd get hard & have to pleasure myself because deep down I love it & feel I deserve it. I can't wait until she is free enough to text/call me from her boyfriends house after a long term affair & say "I love you & our life & relationship but from a sexual point of view you mean nothing to me, I don't want that with you anymore. Going forward this is what I am going to do, you'll have to just accept it if you want to make me happy.
Obviously cheating on the wedding night, on honeymoon, holidays etc are fantasies I'd fully want/support. Any one have any good ideas for her in future like the ones mentioned above? She will read this. We are planning to document our experiences on the scene soon with her blogging about it.
Does anyone else have this betrayal, real cheating fantasy, with the added demeaning nature whilst not into the leather chaps, gimp masks & sucking off guys (which holds no interest for me)? Does anyone else want their wives to have long term affairs & boyfriends?
I'm not the guy who wants to sit in a cuck chair & watch her have sex, whilst filming & saying over & over "you like that." This seems to be the norm on amatuer porn but it wrecks the moment & I know it can't be great for the wife.
Due to my anxiety, my Mrs initially did all her dates by herself. Half because I'd be too anxious to attend half because I wanted her to experience the date, flirting, the sex for herself - not as an act for me. It was the perfect way to start. It doesn't get me hard when she leaves for a date, it's still a massive turn on, but personally I'd rather catch her doing it behind my back. Over the years I've spoken to or heard of wives who are just addicted to sex, get married & after a short period just go back to their addiction which means they have to cheat. It's not even about moving on or leaving their husband it's just the urge for sexual encounters is stronger than the ethics of "keep our wedding vows". In the same way gambling addicts know it's negative but can't help themselves. Anytime she's out of the house & could potentially see a guy to fuck I want her to think of everything I've done wrong or that she doesn't like - and get an attitude of "fuck my fiancés feelings, he deserves this, I deserve this."
She's had many 1-1 dates with strangers, fucked guys bare & came home with cum inside her; we've gone to clubs together & she's been gangbanged by strangers multiple weekends in a row (9 at once is the record). All of this is a massive turn on, especially the clubs - as I'm less cucked & more inviting strangers in & getting to watch them treat her like a sl*t right in front of me, whilst keeping them in line. Although sometimes it's a shame because the men in the clubs can be too respectful our of fear or being told off or kicked out. Sometimes I just want a guy to grab her by the hair force her to her knees & shove his cock in her mouth & then say "whose next?" to the line of strangers standing around; Or just bend her over & fuck her bare without even asking because he thinks she's the type not to care - she'd probably enjoy it. I read about a woman who cucked her husband by not taking the pill for a month & on her most fertile days set up 4-5 dates 3 days a row & let strangers cum inside her, after the last date she took the morning after pill; It was all just to have the thrill of knowing one of those men would have impregnated her against her husband's will & behind his back - I can't say I didn't love reading it.
All this aside, the most I've ever felt turned on & physically affected by the swinging, was when she confessed she had cheated behind my back with a guy in work, someone she's always talked about being attracted to, who we've had issues with in the past of me thinking she had cheated. Part of it still bothers me because it's not through our swinging app but real life; that real life betrayal & humiliation was the most alive feeling I've experienced. It was like a panic attack at the same time as being overwhelmingly turned on. I could barely breathe. She put her sexual appetite & his pleasure above her loyalty to me. I want her to do this so much that it rewires her brain & it becomes her norm. It's exactly what I wanted her to become, I wanted her to cheat. Not care about me & lie. I just want to be cheated on, I love how it feels. I want her to promise not to do it again & then send me a photo of his cum dripping out of her in a hotel room with the caption "Don't ever tell me who I can & can't fuck". Our life & relationship is pretty great as is; when it comes to sex I want it to be 100% adulterous, I want her to have literally 0 sexual loyalty to me. I love being cheated on & she really loves it too. She has told me she enjoys the texts behind my back & lying to me about it all. Hearing this I was over the moon because I feel like at some point now it's going to happen where she just becomes used to cheating on me because it's far more fun than to tell me she has a date on Monday night, than it is to just slip out & not tell me until afterwards.
It's such a turn on when she's mean, comparing me to men & admitting how much more she likes them. It doesn't "feel good" to hear it, it feels pretty shit most of the time. but that feeling is addictive. It means I know she's being honest, I know she's really enjoying him. I wish she had an office job with lots of men so she could just flirt all day & enjoy affairs with tons of men & keep evidence for when she confesses, a day, a week, a month, a year later.
I want her to think "Would this hurt his feelings? Yes, does that matter more than a quick bit of fun for me? Not even slightly." And then after I've got over it, she thinks "He's accepted it so now I can do it again & go further this time." See a guy we both used to know from school on a night out & think "I'm not even that into him but how wrong would it be if I cheated with him?! Ha that'll be fun". Tell me to get dinner ready for 7pm & then at 7:15pm when I'm pissed off wondering where she is, she calls me & all I can hear is her in a bar or at dinner with another guy. Going out for drinks to celebrate my birthday & then after a drink or two she goes the bathroom & I wait & wait sitting there alone thinking "where is she". She asked her boyfriend to meet her outside the bar & got in a taxi with him to his place, or just walked off with him to another nightclub. I'd get a photo of them together at another bar, their arms around eachother. It would feel so embarrassing & humiliating & I know she'd love it.
In the moment I'd have to suffer so she & her lover can enjoy the thrill - whilst I know as soon as I get home & read her messages & see the pictures I'd get hard & have to pleasure myself because deep down I love it & feel I deserve it. I can't wait until she is free enough to text/call me from her boyfriends house after a long term affair & say "I love you & our life & relationship but from a sexual point of view you mean nothing to me, I don't want that with you anymore. Going forward this is what I am going to do, you'll have to just accept it if you want to make me happy.
Obviously cheating on the wedding night, on honeymoon, holidays etc are fantasies I'd fully want/support. Any one have any good ideas for her in future like the ones mentioned above? She will read this. We are planning to document our experiences on the scene soon with her blogging about it.
Does anyone else have this betrayal, real cheating fantasy, with the added demeaning nature whilst not into the leather chaps, gimp masks & sucking off guys (which holds no interest for me)? Does anyone else want their wives to have long term affairs & boyfriends?
