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Caught Her

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My girlfriend's previous boyfriend was black. She is 23 and was with him for about 3 years. I don't know him, but have seen a picture. He's is a pretty big guy, probably about 6'2 220-240lbs. She is petite. About 5'3 110 normally, but a little more now since she is 4 months pregnant. They were broke up before we started seeing each other, but still kept occaisonal contact in person, but mostly over the phone and AIM. About a month ago, I found a saved file on her computer of a AIM session she had with him after I was already living with her. Don't ask me why she saved it because I don't know.

Anyway she was basically talking about being pregnant and saying how she still thinks about him. Then he asked if she was still going to let him get some even though she was now with someone. She said "I thought you would never ask." ANd went on to say what days of the week where good for her, and how it would be hard to see him after the baby was born. She also told him how no one fucked her like he did. He asked her if she let me put it in her ass or if she sucks my dick. She told him "No, he only does it regular for about 10 minutes once a week and doesn't do any of the good stuff." That's partially true. I actually last pretty long and we do it often, but she hasn't performed oral and I'm not really into anal and we haven't done it.

Then he told her to make him a movie. From the rest of the conversation it appears she used a web cam and masturbated with a vibrator (which she doesn't know I know about and she uses almost everday based on how it's moved all the time.) in front of it for him. Then said she had something to do, but would come see him later that day. He lives about 40 minutes away.

To say the least I was devastated. To each his own I say for people into alternative lifesyles as long as your not hurting any one have at it. However i was not into this. When I found this I packed all my stuff and was about to put it in my car (was only living here about a two months and didn't have a lot of stuff here since I still have my own apartment and hers is pretty small) when I called her at work. We ended up talking things over and I stayed til she got home when we talked some more. She never admitted to anything and tried to minimize what I already knew for fact from reading. Saying nothing happened. She got rid of AIM and the camera and changed her cell number and said she wouldn't talk to him anymore.( I didn't tell her to do any of that, she did it on her own.) She said she just kept him around because she was afraid I was going to leave her and didn't want to be alone. One of the reasons they broke up was because they cheated on each other.

I'm still with her now, but I know in the back of my mind she is going to cheat. She says she won't and is happy, but I'm positive she will. The part that bothered me most was that she fully intented to cheat on me while she was pregnant. Sometimes I think about that while we're having sex. I picture her with her belly getting banged by this big black dude.

Like I said, i'm not into the cuckold thing, but I still want to be with her. I don't think she's done anything since then, but she must be horney all the time. We do it about 5-6 times a week sometimes twice a day and she orgasms everytime, but when I come home from work and she's in the shower or at work or something I check and see her vibrator has been moved. I still haven't tried anal with her and she still hasn't even come close to even hinting at oral even though I've done her a few times.
 
Yeah dump her. Life is hard, I know. You got two options, be cheated on and live in fear or dump her.
 
Dump her man, she is going to cheat and if you hadn't appraoched her with the AIM messages she would have kept you in the dark. You don't have much of a relationship at all, yu are a convence for her. Get someone would loves you, she doesn't!
 
Duh!

Hey, go back and read your own post. You've already caught her and know how she thinks (evidently there's little respect for you), the ONLY reason she didn't do anything was because you caught her...did she even apologize?? Does she even know how she hurt you? Whose baby is she having? If it's yours and she is still willing to cheat what does THAT tell you about how she thinks? She purposely belittled your performance so no matter how she ACTS in bed you now know what she really thinks of it all. And just because she has changed some things doesn't mean she still hasn't figured a way to communicate with her former BF - maybe she just figured a way to hide it better. So add it all up and look at the sum!

Sure, you're hurt (maybe?) but you sound like you are trying to convince YOURSELF to hang around. Hey, here's a news flash - she split from her OLD BF because they BOTH cheated on each other and now you catch her planning to cheat again. Do we detect a pattern here? Hellooooo???

Right now the ONLY question you need to be asking is NOT whether to stay with her BUT...whose baby is it? If it ain't yours, take the time to gather your few things and go get your thoughts and perspective settled and get on with your life. You may say you don't LIKE the cuckold thing but if you don't cut things off NOW, you're going to be trapped. Like I said, if the baby is not yours - wave bye to her and make sure she KNOWS without a doubt WHY you are leaving. She may end up rationalizing it in the end but at least you've told her and that will always stay with her.

It's a no-brainer. Stop asking for the obvious answers. The only people who will say otherwise are the very types you don't want to be like.
 
Kick that trick to the curb homie, I myself am not into cuckolding white guys and I REALLY don't get that part of this lifestyle. . . but that's for another thread. EVERYONE here is telling it to ya like it is. This trifflin bitch cheated on her last BF, then got knocked up with your baby(?) THEN got back up with em, told lies about how you get didown in the bedroom, and planned on fuckin some other dude while she's pregnant with YOUR kid (assuming it's yours). I say even if it is your kid dump the bitch and raise your child. If it's not your kid dump the bitch and tell her why, if she tried to deny/explain it or whatever don't even let her speak. Show that bitch what ya back looks like and say Gewdbye and I hope ya die. LoL OK that was mostly a joke the last part, couldn't help it had to throw in a lil rhyme at the end!

Bottom line, cut that trick loose. You'll probably hate yaself latter if you don't.
 

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