Can You Say No?

[carina_halerose]

Can you say no? My Wife /Mistress has given me the right to say no to her about taking a lover. This is a right that I would never abuse. Recently I said no to a lover I know she really wants, but this lover causes her so much stress when it comes to being with her. Her stress comes from the fact she is afraid she may fall hard for him and ruin what we have. She was supposed to met him the other night but the night before she was up all night (so was i) wondering if she is doing the right thing. This is the second time this has happen. I know she wants him because I found them kissing at our wedding reception last Feb. After much thought and talking to her about him I surrendered my no vote and gave her the freedom to see him if she wished.

So my question is: do you have the ability or do you allow your cuck to say no. Have you ever used it?
Then reversed your decision.

 

[newsub4a]

In our relationship I have the right to cast a no vote (BDSM activities or cucking), but seldom use it. In fact, the few times I have used it She often manipulates me until I agree to whatever it is She wants. After 20+ years of marriage she really knows how to work me, lol.

The most recent "no" vote was with a casual fuck buddy she found... a drug dealer! He is not some gun totting gang-banger, but it is a dangerous situation to be in on several levels. This might be a case of her ignoring my veto though... he is well hung and really fucks her well. I suppose time will tell, unfortunately this is a deal breaker for me because playing with him is self-destructive for her and will eventually lead to a bad ending.

 

[cpln2mfm]

we have a swinging relationship where we dont do a thing unless we both agree to it. so i can tell her no at any time. the cucking i have gotten was from the males. in our relationship she submits to me and in cucking i submit to the bull and give him total access to my wife.

 

[SoonToBe]

I have not yet had to say "no" - but Sue assures me that if I was truly uncomfortable about the guy that she would agree to my request. Perhaps we're different, she wants me to be comfortable with what she's doing and to share in her excitement.

 

[mimi27406]

I am sure this thread has a touched a great many here. In this type of relationship, one of the other emerges dominant, and that is usually the woman, and she soon decides to do as she pleases. Someone on another thread, ask, what does sucking cock and taking it up the ass, have to do with cuckolding. Well when we become cuck and do not end the relationship immediately, that seems to be the normal progression.