An unusual surprise!

[Puller]

I made contact with an old friend just now and after covering what he was doing lately, he said he had a new and unusual hobby for the last month.

I asked what it was and he reluctantly told me he was a "Bull" for a cuckold couple. He also had another couple interested in his services.

I asked what he found most enjoyable about the experience and he said it was making eye contact with the cuck when he entered his wife for the first time. He said it was worth an extra inch on his length, just seeing the cucks face. He also loved to make eye contact when he was cuming in the wife.

He did have a problem with the second and as yet unknown couple. The problem being that the cuck is a sissy cuck and my friend does not have a clue how to handle him, particularly when I told him that sissy cucks need special handling to make sure they get something decent out of it. He wants to visit this couple regularly as she is gorgeous, with legs to die for.

So, I need some help with advice for him. I don't really want highly detailed sissy cuck stuff, just something to open it up and get him established in with them. Heavier stuff can come later if they gel together.

For example is it usual for the bull to have physical contact with the cuck? I am not sure my friend would like that too much.

Is there any special ridiculing to be done, apart from the obvious size difference thing?

Help please gentlemen.

 

[Puller]

I just had more thoughts about this and need further advice.

This cuck is a serious sissy. Would I be right in thinking his wife probably adores him and is doing it to please him?

If so, she can take one of two roles. The first would be the femdom bitch, the second would be the slightly sub wife waiting for her bull to make the pace and give her husband his just deserts?

If she is the bitch, she will direct her husbands torment and my friend will simply play along. Or if she is playing sub, he will have to be the dom bull?

If he is the dom bull, he will have to be kind but very positive and firm with the cuck and humiliate him in a kindly but very superior manner? Look how bigger I am. This is how a real man does your wife. etc.

This is where I would be grateful for Custer to appear and refer me to blog that gives a manual in this stuff!

 

[kinkyplace]

I always say that there are no "rules" or "manuals": each couple is different and everybody has own kinks and desires. Why don't he talk with the wife and find out more about the dynamics of her relationship with her husband. If she's doing it for him, then she probably knows what he needs. It might be just some verbal humiliation, or maybe he craves to be ****** to do some humiliating things. In any case he has to get more details - some things might be a turn on for him, while some could be simply wrong and there is no way of knowing...
On the other hand - maybe she doesn't care about what her husband wants - in that case your friend just needs to keep her satisfied.

 

[AngleBaby]

He should talk with the wife and find out if she is sub or not.
If she is, then he can figure it out himself. Want inspiration? Order the sissy diapered when he is there.

 

[Son of John]

I have never been the "other man" in wife-sharing arrangements, but as the husband who has watched his wife being fucked several times, I can attest to the fact that it is most exciting for me, for the other guy to look right at me as he slips his prick up my wife's hot hole. He is looking to be sure I understand exactly what he is taking from me.

And, the "other men" get equal excitement from knowing the other guys are totally aware that they are getting fucks from their wives. It is no good for any of the three people involved in this activity to pretend that it is something different from what it really is. It is a guy fucking a married woman while her husband is right there watching.

A friend, who has had considerable experience fucking married women, including mine, told me about one situation in which a husband had set-up a meeting with his wife and my friend. Everything went well enough as the wife and the other guy got undressed, and even when the wife lay down on the bed with her legs apart. But when the other guy got up between her legs and pointed his hardened prick at her hole, the husband suddenly lost his courage. He cried out "No! Don't fuck her! She's my wife! Don't fuck my wife!"

My friend said this outburst from the husband just made him want to fuck her even more, and since the wife was not objecting, he just sank his cock in her hole while telling the husband "Too late! I'm here to fuck your wife and I'm gonna do it!" Then he proceeded to fuck her while the husband watched and kept on objecting. "Stop! Please stop fucking her!" etc.

My friend said the wife came easily, and he did too. He said it just added to the excitement, to hear the husband right there pleading with him to stop. He and I both wonder if the husband really felt that way or if he was just pretending to make it even more enjoyable for all.

My own experiences have all been positive. There is absolutely nothing that has excited me more in life than watching another man fuck my wife! It is the ultimate sexual experience!

 

[Custer Laststand]

Puller,

This is where I would be grateful for Custer to appear and refer me to a blog that [is, in effect,] a manual for this stuff!

I suggest resisting the urge to give your friend "the bull" advice on how to relate to his married woman and her sissy cuckold whom you know nothing about. I say this because of the potential for bad outcomes in sexual interactions involving intense emotions, if your friend says and/or does things they don't want.

More reasonable advice (IMO) would be to suggest to your friend he read around on this forum and note the different kinds of "bull behavior" described by forum cuckolds and cuckoldresses, then try to decide on a modis operandi likely to be suitable for himself and for his married woman and her sissy. Then, *communicate* with them in advance, preferably by phone, to ascertain and come to specific agreement on what they want and a specific understanding of what their limits are. Then, when he visits them, take care to stay within the boundaries of their agreement.

Even better advice to your friend might be to refrain from scanning sites like this one, in which a "significant percentage" of the posts appear to be fictional, and simply call his married woman and her cuckold and, in a straightforward way, come to agreement with them (read, with both of them) as suggested in the previous paragraph.

I'm not aware of web sites that present what might be called "best practices for bulls;" I really haven't looked into it. But there may, of course, be such sites.

—Custer

 

[Custer Laststand]

SoJ,

.... as a husband who has watched his wife being fucked several times, I can attest that it is most exciting for me for the other guy to look right at me as he slips his prick up my wife's hot hole. He is looking to be sure I understand exactly what he is taking from me.

I would guess your wife's lover also looks you in the eye when you are present for survival reasons; i.e., because he considers it critically important to be aware of how you're responding. If you appear to be on the verge of decompensating and assaulting him, obviously he would want to be aware of that possibility as early-on as possible.

—Custer

 

[greymaster]

I enjoy my 'married women' from a distance via my stories and email messages. Even with this total lack of physical contact I still managed to screw up (ONCE!!!!).

Communication is everything. I've got a number of stories that I adapt for individuals, but I need certain information from the parties first - otherwise the whole thing becomes unbelievable and wrong. Imagine how wrong things can be when there are real bodies (and body parts) involved.

Have your 'Bull' friend talk with the driving force of the couple (could be either one), and then get some form of confirmation from the other partner that he has (a) been told the truth and (b) understood it properly.

Just my two-peneth worth

 

[a_sissy_little_girly_boy8]

He should talk with the wife and find out if she is sub or not.
If she is, then he can figure it out himself. Want inspiration? Order the sissy diapered when he is there.

I have to agree with AngleBaby here. If the bull is worried about contact with the sissy, a diaper and plastic panties will keep her little sissy things well out of sight and under control...

 

[Son of John]

For Custer, great insight into why a "wife-fucker" might want to monitor the husband while he is plowing his wife. Some guys do change their minds half way through the fuck, and the other prick is wise if he figures that out, and what to do about it.

Most guys, I am sure, would go on fucking the wife, even while her husband protested, if he felt he was not actually threatened. The protocol of the situation includes the right of the other guy to continue fucking the wife once he has started. It is a little late then for the husband to change his mind, though some do.

More than one husband has stood there blubbering "Stop fucking my wife!" which just makes it more exciting for the guy who is fucking her. But, to fuck another man's wife, right in front of him, has to be one of the most outrageous of all sexual experiences, and one that should be entered into knowing all the risks involved.

 

[Custer Laststand]

SoJ,

For Custer, great insight into why a "wife-fucker" might want to monitor the husband while he is plowing his wife. Some guys do change their minds half way through the fuck, and the other prick is wise if he figures that out and what to do about it.

Thanks. ("The 'other prick,' you say.... I like that.)

Most guys, I am sure, would go on fucking the wife even while her husband protested, if he felt he was not actually threatened.

Yes, probably. That's an important "if," of course.

The protocol of the situation includes the right of the other guy to continue fucking the wife once he has started.

That's entirely reasonable. I suppose it's obvious that it's important for the married woman, her cuckold, and her lover-of-the-moment to all sign on to this protocol in advance.

It is a little late then for the husband to change his mind, though some do.

I agree.... and yes, apparently some do. There was a particularly intense description of one of those situations on this forum some time ago, where the cuckold decompensated and physically assaulted his wife's lover (who was much larger and stronger) who was fucking his wife in front of him. It worked out badly for him, both with respect to his wife's lover (immediately) and, when the lover went back to fucking his wife, with respect to his wife after they finished. The cuckold expressed profound sadness and regret for "losing it" (in light of what followed), but his post was much later.

More than one husband has stood there blubbering "Stop fucking my wife!" which just makes it more exciting for the guy who is fucking her.

Yes, I can imagine....

But, to fuck another man's wife right in front of him, has to be one of the most outrageous of all sexual experiences, and one that should be entered into knowing all the risks involved.

Clearly.

—Custer

 

[Puller]

Many thanks for all the input here people, it is appreciated.

I must say I was very surprised by the back-off-and-play-it as-it-comes approach, but will bow to the superior knowledge of you people and pass that on, with the very reasonable advice of simply asking the lady what is needed.

Again thanks.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Puller,

Many thanks for all the input here people, it is appreciated. ....

You're welcome. I hope this couple works out well for your friend "the bull." It looks like he's facing an opportunity for some highly-erotic experiences.... at least potentially, if he handles it right.

—Custer