Dont worry.
I'm pretty sure that most of the shit you read in here is fictionous.
I am an active sub to a black man and let me tell you... most of the shit you read in here is from some white-guy pervert with a really overactive imagination. All the shit they talk about might happen, but trust me when i say it's no where near as wide spread as this place would have you think. If everyone were doing all the shit that seems to go on in here, you'd have people dropping of aids like flies. That's why I'm always bad-mouthing those who I sense are full of shit!