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ScottyBo
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I'm asking for 'advice' although I'll admit upfront I'm not sure of the complete situation so any comments might be appropriate.
As some may know, my wife Lynn had her first BBC relatively recently and after discussing the scene and letting her decide on her own what she'd like the future to hold, Lynn will be entering the lifestyle and is nervously excited. A female friend has invited her to attend an I/R party next weekend at a downtown hotel/motel (I'm actually not sure which it is) and Lynn agreed to go. However, as a 'safety net' she wants me to take her there in case she decides to leave earlier than her friend (who is into BBC hardcore).
It's my understanding (anecdotal stuff from Lynn) that there is usually maybe a dozen - or a little less - black guys and maybe a similar number of white females. I tend to think it will be LESS white girls but I'm sure there'll be 10-12 black guys. Right now the plan is for me to either wait in the bar or be near the place so Lynn can call me and I can be there in a short time. What I am asking advice for is:
What goes on? I mean, yeah, fucking and sucking but if the female wants to stop is it accepted to do so? How 'wild' do these parties become - given it would be in a relatively 'public' establishment. I have read the stories and heard the accounts like everyone else but I also know 90% of them are fictional dreams. Is it all bareback or can condoms be used?
I am NOT going there to watch - Lynn will be anxious enough as it is and as much as I enjoy the whole scene I'd be no good either for starters.
If anyone cares to respond I'd appreciate it, but please just be intelligent sounding and have some amount of logic and reality to anything that may be said.
If the outcome of Lynn's experience is worthwhile I'll assuredly 'report' here.
As some may know, my wife Lynn had her first BBC relatively recently and after discussing the scene and letting her decide on her own what she'd like the future to hold, Lynn will be entering the lifestyle and is nervously excited. A female friend has invited her to attend an I/R party next weekend at a downtown hotel/motel (I'm actually not sure which it is) and Lynn agreed to go. However, as a 'safety net' she wants me to take her there in case she decides to leave earlier than her friend (who is into BBC hardcore).
It's my understanding (anecdotal stuff from Lynn) that there is usually maybe a dozen - or a little less - black guys and maybe a similar number of white females. I tend to think it will be LESS white girls but I'm sure there'll be 10-12 black guys. Right now the plan is for me to either wait in the bar or be near the place so Lynn can call me and I can be there in a short time. What I am asking advice for is:
What goes on? I mean, yeah, fucking and sucking but if the female wants to stop is it accepted to do so? How 'wild' do these parties become - given it would be in a relatively 'public' establishment. I have read the stories and heard the accounts like everyone else but I also know 90% of them are fictional dreams. Is it all bareback or can condoms be used?
I am NOT going there to watch - Lynn will be anxious enough as it is and as much as I enjoy the whole scene I'd be no good either for starters.
If anyone cares to respond I'd appreciate it, but please just be intelligent sounding and have some amount of logic and reality to anything that may be said.
If the outcome of Lynn's experience is worthwhile I'll assuredly 'report' here.
