Advice

[beg2bcuck]

I have longed to see my wife fucked by another man for a long time now. The issue is getting her to do it.

We have discussed it and talk about all the time during sex. We have done some role play me eating her after I came in her. She's even talked about a guy she use to date she like to do it with.

Problem is after sex or once a month she ask me not to bring it up anymore and even calls me a pervert and makes it the reasons she doesn't want to have sex when we fight.

Question is do I keep persuing this or leave it as a fantasy.

 

[thecuckoldclub]

It sounds as though she may be a bit conflicted, this is normal and as Mac said a good sign as well. Take care to keep the association to this fantasy positive. Allowing yourself to become overbearing about the issue will create a negative association. I always suggest that a guy seeking to transform his wife must enroll her into the idea slowly, and his first goal should be getting her to admitt during sex that she wants another mans cock inside of her, then having her repeat it over and over till she cums.

But...Again, as Mac said, get her out there in social situations that allow her to experience the attention of other men. You will find a lot of the fun is appreciating the subtle changes and joy comes from watching her blossom into the cockwhore you wish her to be. Appreciate the journey cause it only happens once.

I think you are on the right path...just keep that path as smooth as possible.

 

[Saraha]

Women will do naughty things if enough of their friends are doing it. They will also do it if they PERCEIVE their friends are doing it.

You could occasional tell your wife some of the naughty things your mates have got up to (even if they haven't).

It is about using your imagination, and telling the metaphorical story in such a way that powerful mind pictures form in her head as your chosen words unfold. She is ****** to "live the story" and it turns on her emotions.

You won't upset her, because it is just exciting gossip of what "others out there" are doing. You are seeding her mind to start noticing other stuff on the same subject automatically over weeks and months. Television News does the same thing to get people to change their views on things.

Don't push her, she will become more accepting in the fullness of time, and may even experiment behind your back to see if she can pull guys. This is a self-esteem experiment she won't tell you about.

The defining moment will come if she meets a guy she feels attracted to - your words will flood her mind, and she will cross the line because she remembers you wanted her to.

 

[chris]

One way to encourage her is to always be absolutely shit in bed. Give her great head, and when it comes to the cock be crap. Tell her you would understand if she needed another man to keep her satisfied.

The other tip that comes up is to make it relational. The theory is that women respond more to relational issues than sex issues - Ie talk about how her having a lover would enhance your relationship.

Last piece of advice is a recording by Isabella Valantine (May not be spelt correctly) - I think it is called cuckold therapy. Get her to wear headphones and give her a massage as she is listening.

Very last piece of advice - get her to catch you with another woman in bed and she may fuck your mate to get her revenge.

Good Luck - Chris

(That last piece of advice was a joke).

 

[Dirty489]

You can do it. Stick in there, don't force it.

Something I think helps is telling her that you want to role-play a little about it while you are having sex and that it doesn't have to be true. It will make her say things she really means but is scared to say because she doesn't want to hurt you. Afterwards you can tell her it was hot, especially thinking about her being with another man. Positive reinforcement. It will evolve.

 

[Saraha]

When a wife gets sex twice a day for weeks and weeks in a row, she is ****** to think about sex all the time - and it makes her think about what it might be like to have sex with other guys.

if you fuck her (now and again), her libido falls off, and she thinks you are losing interest in her because she is moving into a stage of her life when she perceived as "less desirable, less attractive, out of shape, even fat and ugly).

You want to touch her sexually all the time, and this makes it easier for her mind to imagine other men "having their way with her".

Flood her mind with comments about how desirable she is, and how many guys have been checking her out with steamy looks on their face. it plays on a wife's if she knows other men are lusting after her.

Cut the sex back too much and she will feel she is over the hill, and it can become incredibly difficult for her to imagine any other guy might want to take your place.

Some wives hold onto their marriage tightly, because they feel no other guy would want them. They fear that adultery (even with hubby's permission) will catapult them into the "loneliness of divorce". If you push for them to take lovers, their suspicous mind will be trying to work out WHY YOU WANT THEM TO?

The more sex a wife gets, the more likely she will enjoy SEXUAL FANTASiES iN BED and allow her mind to dream of taking lovers and her marriage staying rock solid long term.

When your wife feels your love, and sees you doing all sorts of extra chores around the home to prove your love won't diminish, she is more likely to allow herself to accept your gift of extra cocks (as a reward for being such a wonderful wife.

A wife who gets little sex, will be very hard to convince that she needs to take a lover. Your infrequent trips to her pussy have already told her that she is no longer desirable to men.

if you don't want her pussy much these days, she does not want to face the humiliation of taking a lover and him deciding to chuck her after only a few fucks (because he has discovered why her husband won't fuck her much anymore).

The more a hubby fucks his wife, the more vulnerable she is to her mind accepting she needs to enjoy a variety of cocks - because she is a special gift to men, and her pussy was made "round" to be "shared around".

Never under-estimate how much a wife can lose her self-esteem if she feels she is losing her attractiveness. She can sink into depression and moodiness because she is not getting enough sexual expression.

if her marriage is wonderfully happy, men will flirt with her more often because her face pulls men to her like a magnet. Her face is her fortune, and men love talking to a wife who looks so happy.

She is going to get offers even if she turns them down. But if she knows she has permission to accept offers as a gift/reward from you to her for being a wonderful wife, the day will come when she accepts an offer from the right hunky guy........and you become a cuckold overnight, and she has accepted your gift, and she sees that you are delighted that she has.

 

[Saraha]

My keyboard is losing it's self-esteem - and uppercase keys are developing faults as evidenced above. Capital i becomes a comma. Other faults are showing up to.