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Advice with cheating wife

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I'm going to post the full story soon but after some advice.


We've been married for 5 years and over that time we discussed having a 3sum, shared picture with 2 people, I did find out she'd been messaging and sending photos to someone else few years ago which led to a large argument. From the start we have we said openness is key which caused the argument. I'm sure she slept with said person but they both denied it and she said sorry she'd got carried away with the sneaking around as it was exciting for her and a big turn on. We cleared the air and have been solid since.


until a few weeks ago we have both been working from home, and since I busted her last time she had changed all her passwords and pin for phone. So whilst out shopping I couldn't help myself from snooping on her laptop as id seen facebook open on it before.


The only reason I looked is during a very drunken night in January she was all over someone we only semi knew(friend of friends) which ended in her rubbing his crouch and commenting on his monster cock. It was past off as drunken fun and everyone was happy. He added us both to facebook and she still enjoys when I bring up during sex calling her a dirty slut and so on but that is about as far as it went.


But I had a incline they had been chatting and I wasn't wrong when I opened up facebook he was the 2nd person on her messages. The chat had been muted and messages go back to January where they were planning on meeting up for a drink, her saying she won't be able to keep her hands off him, that I'm her world but she wants dirty fun outside the marriage and for a real man to fuck her. Some of the chat has been deleted but theres still bits where his requested pictures from her and shes sent them and real dirty talk sometimes at my expense.


I really don't no where to go from here part of me wants call her out lying yet I want them to continue. I took pictures of the chat and wank over them all the time thinking about it but since starting back at work I no access to their messages which Is killing me.


Any advice how I can get her tell me about it without me bringing it up and causing a argument?
 
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It seems you’ve found yourself in the cuck zone. Whether you stay there or not is completely up to you. Your mixed emotions of anger, rejection, betrayal, lust, and arousal are all natural but they all add up to the dizziness and confusion you feel.

If you decide that you value your marriage more than sex, know that she will not stop this behavior—it is ingrained in her and she will always seek to have you as her beta companion, maybe even loving you deeply for it. However, the sexual animal in her must be satisfied by an alpha male such as the one you described her messaging...feeling up his big cock in front of you and anyone else present, eventually sucking his huge cock and devouring it with her wide open, soaking wet cunt...all whether you stay to watch or not.

Take some time away; call her and tell her after you’ve gone and tell her what you saw. Tell her you need time to think it through and that you may not be coming back but if you do go back, it has to be your choice. And she had to be completely honest with you and most importantly herself about what it is she wants.

I’m nearly certain there’s someone else you can meet who will think the world of you, be lovingly devoted to you, and stay faithful to you should you choose to leave. The question you have to ask yourself, is it worth being married to your current wife accepting her as she is—a slut who will always prefer to fuck someone other than you. Does the rest of your relationship outweigh that thing?
 
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Hornyukdude said:
I'm going to post the full story soon but after some advice.


We've been married for 5 years and over that time we discussed having a 3sum, shared picture with 2 people, I did find out she'd been messaging and sending photos to someone else few years ago which led to a large argument. From the start we have we said openness is key which caused the argument. I'm sure she slept with said person but they both denied it and she said sorry she'd got carried away with the sneaking around as it was exciting for her and a big turn on. We cleared the air and have been solid since.


until a few weeks ago we have both been working from home, and since I busted her last time she had changed all her passwords and pin for phone. So whilst out shopping I couldn't help myself from snooping on her laptop as id seen facebook open on it before.


The only reason I looked is during a very drunken night in January she was all over someone we only semi knew(friend of friends) which ended in her rubbing his crouch and commenting on his monster cock. It was past off as drunken fun and everyone was happy. He added us both to facebook and she still enjoys when I bring up during sex calling her a dirty slut and so on but that is about as far as it went.


But I had a incline they had been chatting and I wasn't wrong when I opened up facebook he was the 2nd person on her messages. The chat had been muted and messages go back to January where they were planning on meeting up for a drink, her saying she won't be able to keep her hands off him, that I'm her world but she wants dirty fun outside the marriage and for a real man to fuck her. Some of the chat has been deleted but theres still bits where his requested pictures from her and shes sent them and real dirty talk sometimes at my expense.


I really don't no where to go from here part of me wants call her out lying yet I want them to continue. I took pictures of the chat and wank over them all the time thinking about it but since starting back at work I no access to their messages which Is killing me.


Any advice how I can get her tell me about it without me bringing it up and causing a argument?

I'd call her out about her lying AND tell her there's no need to lie because you want them to continue. But she must tell you about their meetings.
 
Murphs said:
..... When [my wife] wants sex with me she wants loving and caring sex, with [her] occasional fucking with [other] men, it is fucking, dirty slutty fucking.
Hey.... whatever works for your sexy wife. You should, of course, be tolerant of her need to fuck other men from time-to-time, and "keep that secret" from you.

You might consider teasing her about it when she comes home after a more-or-less obvious sexual encounter :cool:, saying something like: "How was your date...? I know you're very virtuous, so I'm sure you did not allow him any liberties...."
 
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I didn't know my wife cheated on me till we had a threesome with a friend of mine (with my encouragement) telling her I had always wanted to see her taking another guys cock we both enjoyed the experience that first time.
It was then she told me about her cheating with the guy who took her virginity after visiting our home town while I was working away from home, she also had a threesome with him and his younger brother.
 
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Bibob said:
.......... It was then [my wife] told me about her cheating with the guy who took her virginity after visiting our home town while I was working away from home, she also had a threesome with him and his younger brother.
Nice. Good for your wife....
 
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Custer Laststand said:
Nice. Good for your wife....
It was after this confession I asked her to tell me about any sex she had with other guys as it was a turn on to hear about her cheating on me and I didn't mind if she did it again.
She has cheated though now with my approval and I get to enjoy her telling me about her time with him, what they did, how big his cock was and whether he gave her orgasms or not.
She has now started to come home and has me licking her cum filled pussy as she narrates her experiences.
I love it.
 
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Bibob said:
It was after this confession I asked her to tell me about any sex she had with other guys, as it was a turn on to hear about her cheating on me and I didn't mind if she did it again.
Sounds like you managed to put your sexy wife on the right track, not just with respect to her taking lovers but vis-a-vis you, as well.
Bibob said:
She has cheated now with my approval and I get to enjoy her telling me about her time with him, what they did, how big his cock was, and whether he gave her orgasms or not.
Very good. (I would think your hotwife would regularly attain orgasms with her lovers. If not, that would suggest a less-than-optimal choice.)
Bibob said:
She has now started to come home and has me licking her cum filled pussy as she narrates her experiences. I love it.
Excellent-plus. You might suggest your sexy wife do that by queening you (you on your back, her straddling and riding your face, hopefully to another orgasm), if she isn't doing that already.

It sounds like your hotwife / cuckold husband marriage is now working out well for both of you.
 
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Excellent-plus. You might suggest your sexy wife do that by queening you (you on your back, her straddling and riding your face, hopefully to another orgasm), if she isn't doing that already.
We have done that on many an occasion after being filled with his cum sharing it with me.
Our marriage is an open book, she loves cock I love sucking them after she has been fucked by them.
She is also bi and has let me share her friends with her as well.
I am lucky to have a fair sized cock which my wife and her friends enjoy and one of her lovers enjoys sucking it for me.
Wonderful life to live.
 
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look forward to the rest of the story.
 
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Your jealous, your cuckold, you are confused. Discuss your feelings with her. I 'm saying this my man and I lead an open life style for most of our marriage.
 
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Currently:

1. You have a dilemma because you found out this new information by snooping on her computer.
2. She's already changed her passwords and PINs once to keep you out of her devices.
3. If you tell her you know because you snooped, she will change them all again so you won't have access to information.
4. She will also be very upset with the fact you are snooping and, especially, that she got caught.
5. There is no direct, concrete evidence proving infidelity on her part.
6. If you is willing to cheat on you now, she most likely do it again if she thinks she got away with it the first time. As my wife says, once you cross a line like that, it gets easier every time you do it.

So, I think you need to:

1. Figure out what you want here and then map out a course to get there.
2. Do you want to be a cuckold? Then you have the opportunity here. Is that what you REALLY want? Because you can't unring the bell. If that is the case, then you likely don't want her to know you can access her devices because it appears to me that is the only way your are going to actually know anything.
3. Do you want her not cheating? (You have indicated that you want her to not cheat.) If you confront her now, she will deny everything and say that it's all just flirty talk and that nothing's going to happen. Then she will change her passwords and PINs again and you won't know anything, you won't have any evidence, and you won't be able to know anything or find anything out.
4. Get real evidence of her infidelity if/when it happens.

But, most of all, if you don't want to be a cuckold and/or you don't want her cheating, what are you going to do about it? You want to roll with it? You want to work it out? Do you want to divorce her? This is the nut-cutting question, because dictates everything you do moving forward. And once you figure out what you really want and what your path is going to be, that will tell you what you need to do.
 
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we've been waiting since July. i guess he is gone. he was last on here in December.

Bummer
 
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