There is some great advice in this forum so I thought I would post my own situation and see if anyone has any ideas.
I have a girlfriend who lives an 8-hour flight away. We are going to be moving together at some point, but not in the close future.
She has recently admitted that she went on around 5 dates with 3 different guys during the Christmas Holiday season. Its of course a real turn on to hear about these dates, but she won't give me all the details.
I outright ask her and she's hesitant to tell me.
Anyone willing to share some ideas on how I can get her to spill the dirt?
A cuck should not get pissed off at any sexual experience his girlfriend or wife has with other guys. Cuck = wayward female okay to experiment to her heart's content.
I agree with advice given by MacNfries about honesty providing you the juicy bits for your ears, as long as you do not pass critique on her sexual experiments with other guys.
thanks, good advice...I will try the guilt trip.
I am not afraid of hearing she's fucking other guys, I think its hot. Plus I am 99% sure its already happened....I wont pass negative judgement on her, I love her too much for that.
There is some great advice in this forum so I thought I would post my own situation and see if anyone has any ideas.
I have a girlfriend who lives an 8-hour flight away. We are going to be moving together at some point, but not in the close future.
She has recently admitted that she went on around 5 dates with 3 different guys during the Christmas Holiday season. Its of course a real turn on to hear about these dates, but she won't give me all the details.
I outright ask her and she's hesitant to tell me.
Anyone willing to share some ideas on how I can get her to spill the dirt?
If she's doing the deed and not open about it with you, that means you are not her trusted partner. Did she discuss it with you ahead of time? It sounds like you think you have more of a relationship than actually exists. Either you come to an agreement that's good for both of you, or find someone else.
Some women want their husbands/boyfriends to know they are fucking with other guys, but they also want them to be a bit jealous of the fact. If the husband says he doesn't care, or that he enjoys knowing that other men are fucking her, then this is a turn-off for some women. Face it! Many woman want their men to suffer in some way because other men are helping themselves to their wives' pussies!
I learned this through my first marriage. My wife enjoyed fucking with other men and wanted to see my suffer from it. As soon as I was able to adjust and became involved in helping her meet with other men she was ready to move on. She simply could not accept that it was "normal" for me to willingly share her cunt with other men!
Don't guilt her. That's just control bullshit ad will have the opposite effect than you desire. Instead, let her know that her telling you about her dates turned you on, and you've gotten yourself off imagining her with the other guys. Tell her you wonder on weekends if she's doing another guy and it arouses you. See where that conversation goes. You could playfully ask her if she's going to date guys after you live together (tell her that'd turn you on).
my gf has experiences at my instigation but afterwards she feels guilty. She does not want to talk about it and even denies it. This does my head in.
We are learrning. She is learning that if she tells me, I wont go on and on about it. I am learning to be picky when I ask and not to spoil other times by going on about her other boyfriends.
In return she gives me little details and drip feeds me the story
my gf has experiences at my instigation but afterwards she feels guilty. She does not want to talk about it and even denies it. This does my head in.
We are learrning. She is learning that if she tells me, I wont go on and on about it. I am learning to be picky when I ask and not to spoil other times by going on about her other boyfriends.
In return she gives me little details and drip feeds me the story
