Advice on tonight

[mdownsuk]

My wife has been thinking of becoming a hot-wife for a while and the thoughts and fantasies that she's had certainly turn her on. She's even been close to doing it on one occasion, but the guy turned out to be not her type.

Anyway, she was hit on by a friend of a friend recently and they kissed passionately. She liked his forward style. He offered to take her out of the club and do more, but as it was the wrong time of the month, she had no option. Recently, she has toyed with the idea of meeting up with him, but not been sure, as she's still not sure if he is her type.

Fast forward to today, where she has said she would happily meet up with him tonight if he were around (they messaged each other yesterday briefly, but only in a flirty way with nothing concrete). She wants him to make the move, but I think he's already done that. I think she now needs to leave a more forward message for him. However, she is reluctant. She thinks it is too cheesy to be obvious.

In reality, I'm possibly just a few hours away from getting a hot-wife. Any advice on what I can say or do to get the ball rolling quickly? One option would be for me to message the guy direct, but she definitely does not want that.

 

[Dominant.Goddess]

timing...

hello mdowsnuk, I would say that sometimes the space in between things is just as important a part of the process than the actual thing itself! I know that this allows time to reflect, talk, communicate and be aware of any emotions bubbling under the excitement/anticipation etc. I also think you HAVE to respect your wife's boundaries though I understand your own frustration to a degree as well. If she is talking this openly with you and already kissing other guys, I don't think you'll have too long to wait! Patience....?

good luck,

~DG~

 

[Custer Laststand]

Your wife is moving in the right direction. I think she will get there....

Mdownsuk,

My wife has been thinking of becoming a hot-wife for a while and the thoughts and fantasies that she's had certainly turn her on. .... Anyway, she was hit on by a friend of a friend recently and they kissed passionately. She liked his forward style. .... Fast forward to today; she said she would happily meet up with him tonight if he were around (they messaged each other yesterday briefly, but only in a flirty way with nothing concrete). She wants him to make the move .... Any advice on what I can say or do to get the ball rolling quickly?

Ms. Dominant has given you some good advice; I agree with her. If your wife does not want you to contact her lover-in-waiting, you should definitely not do so. Have patience and let her work on her own time scale. I suspect she will make you her cuckold in the reasonably near future.

—Custer