Thank you so much for being so nice talking to me tonight. I know my questions were not easy but what you said was so helpful to bring me some closure. I wish forever be grateful. I hope we can remain friends, especially since we are so close to each other. Please PM any time.
Another one in same vane, have your wife call your HR to find out if it is covered under your medical insurance. Make sure she identifies you and ask to speak to supervisor or his boss if not covered. Might inquire about removing testicles too.