thank you!All of you - great advice so far, we REALLY appreciate it.As to our preferences, we both need someone to help us over the jitters. Regarding us, he is a dominant male himself and won't do well as a submissive cuck. He will insist on more of an equal BM whom he wants to...
We're a couple, 50s, in So Cal. We have been using IR in our fantasy/role playing (BB dildo, dirty talk) for a long time but never took it to the next level. Lately, we have started to talk about it as a reality. She would like to try it but is nervous of course. He is turned on by the idea...