The butt plug it the answer with ID lube...don't get the blue one get the pink one, it says sensual on it. The blue one is too slippery...you can't feel anything, the pink one is just as slippery but, some how it let's you still feel what's going. You don't need to use much at all, several...
Uncut is better, it's natural and the way it should be and it's a lot sexier. Although for some it's done for religious reasons, in the U.S. it has always been done to pretty much all males right after birth with the explaination that it was for cleanliness. They may have been a valid reason...
Be realistic....what you seek is reallly a lifestyle that in retrospect is just beginning to become popular. If it wasn't for the internet we would still be in the dark ages fantasizing about it. The internet is the only place that you can spell it ALL out in one profile (like you did) and...