I agree with Ken: you need to discuss this with your husband - but does he realise that you are in the relationship with this man? If he doesn’t, getting pregnant by your black lover will require some explanation once the baby arrives.
Hi Ben it’s Ayjay here. I have a 31 year old partner who absolutely loves your photos. We live in Dulwich so not far from you.
What sort of time do you have for meet-ups?