I have had a few experiences, and I can tell you that it varies depending on the person. Some saw it as a chance to show dominance at home and out in public, by telling me what to do, make sure I don't look them in the eyes when I talk to them, etc. Others It made no difference. I have never...
I dated a girl a while ago that was a bartender, and she made sure everyone knew what type of relationship we had. She would "date" whoever she wanted and I would always be the "standby" boyfriend. The bar she was in had a decent gay crowd and apparently someone suggested that I should suck her...