Don't despair! You are indeed right there are TONS of fakes here, but and here is the best part, there are some real good hook ups. From a woman's perspective, DO NOT FORCE her into it! My husband made very subtle suggestions, and eventually I became VERY interested in a particular guy. Now...
Be careful, there are far too many fakes out there. Out of over 20 responses to private messages only two appeared real, and they were too far away and did not fit the bill.Good luck in your search though, it truly is worth it!!!!