Actually, my wife said that he was nervous and uncertain at first, until she left him with no doubt about what she (and I) wanted. She's also very good at making guys comfortable. One thing she's learned is that when a guy seems unsure of what to do, she starts to undress him. That often...
My wife and I find most of her playmates on swinger sites or at occasional parties, but the approach she enjoys most is to hook up with guys in situations where they aren't expecting or necessarily looking for sex. She finds this kind of setting much more exciting and comfortable than, say...
I've got some additional pix but they're all pretty much along the same lines as what I've posted. Let me know if there's interest in them though.My dad will be back in our area again later this summer, and I've given them the green light to pick up where they left off if they both want...
We've done some threesome play with her as in the pix below, but no DP (she's never gone for that with any of her guys). No spit roasting yet but it's likely to happen if we continue this. She enjoys that, particularly with the other guy in back.