I hope you find the guy you're looking for. He will have won the lottery with a beautiful woman as you. I'm very sorry to hear of Ben's medical condition and resulting surgery. I'm also 74 and my cancerous prostate removal has left me unable to get an erection since Feb. 2020. I can relate to Ben. I can only hope he enjoys eating pussy as much as I do. I bet you are very tasty. Good luck in your search.