It hasn't always been men either, one time in middle school with my friend who I still now know, have known her for 22 years she said "all you think and talk about is sex" but since I was a kid and a virgin back then and I had no potential partners, and not even very many guy friends because I was around 12 so it was still that age where men and women's friendships are separated by gender, I just didn't know what to say and my feelings were just really really hurt by it lol. Like a lot. But that's the only time I remember where it was a woman and not a man doing it. After that time, I don't remember ever being called a slut by women or slut shamed by women, not that stands out to me. It was only ever men who told me I'm a slut in a bad way. Being a slut has been given as the reason for every break up I've ever had. The men said they wanted to find someone to settle with. But I want something long term I just want it to be with guys who like sluts. No women besides my current cuck's wife who says men like her more because she would never sleep with them and she thinks they secretly prefer that. She's into findom and her whales give when she tells them she would never fuck them. But I guess we aren't alike cos I just like enjoy sex it's self too much to even fake pretend that I don't for money. But that's real for her, she actually would never fuck them. The slut shaming she does to me is calling me stupid for not knowing men want to be told no instead of yes. She claims that's why I can't find one besides my current cuck. She's jealous of our relationship and wants him to validate her more as a voluntary celibate asexual, she often asks him to tell her she's more dominant for never being as pathetic as me and sleeping with men. A lot of it is focused on how dumb I am for not knowing men don't actually want to have sex. Doesn't quite make sense to me because of the existence of sex workers but she says men like sex workers because the money makes them feel like they are ****** into that line of work and makes the men feel like they are ****** them. That's part of why she claims they don't actually want sex. She thinks she's calling men out for hating it because of the existence of sex workers and how men prefer them in order to feel as if they are ******. She thinks some men are aware of how evil they are and just want to be told no period. It's kind of odd because technically findom is sex work. But she means penetration of the penis into the vagina, or sucking dick, or things like that. Things that involve touch, which is what I like and want to do, that's what she means by a sex worker and doesn't consider findom to be sex work because: 1. She doesn't need the income she gets from it, she's already rich, and 2. There is no fluid exchange