You Want Me To Do What?!? - A Hotwife Origin Story

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Every woman has her secret fantasies. I'll be honest, my husband sitting and watching me was never one of them. There's a lot of hotwives who get their introduction to this lifestyle by finding their husband's porn collection, I was no different. I didn't know what to think about what I saw on his iPad, I was confused more than anything. I kept it to myself for weeks. He had never brought any of this up in the bedroom before. The more I thought about it the more I started to realize how conditioned I was. All of my life I was told you have to marry a man, only be with him or he will leave you and raise a family with him. I realized I didnt really have to abide by these rules if he didnt want to either, I just didnt know how to approach him that I suspected I knew how he felt. I couldn't just ask him about his porn habits, so I figured out a way to approach this from a different angle. One night when we were laying in bed, I curled up in his arm. I put my head on his chest and could feel his heart beat. Outside of my hand on his chest I didnt touch him, I knew if I stayed like this I could use his heartrate to tell me the truth. I slowly started some light dirty talk with him. His heartbeat got a little faster. I hid my true question for a while, then asked him if him if I could give him one fantasy what would that be. In retrospect he lied, he said something about a threesome with another girl. I had set him up though and he didn't even know it, he naturally asked me the same question back. He had no clue I was going to play into his true fantasy. I told him that I didnt know, but always wondered what sex with a really big dick was like. His heartbeat went througn the roof, I knew I had him nailed. Now I love him very much and never wanted him to hide himself or feel scared to tell me anything, so I whispered in his ear that I loved him and never wantes him to feel ashamed, but I knew that he wanted this for me even more than me. He knew he was ******* within the walls of our bedroom. He asked me how I knew and told him he left his iPad open on a porn site one night when he went to the bathroom and thought I was asleep. He asked me what was next, so I told him we were going shopping tomorrow and he was going to help me put together a Tinder profile. I stroked his cock for about five seconds and he came. Our sex life had changed forever.
 
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basicmarriedmale said:
i think the most important part of this story that wasn't revealed was if he has any cardiac problems. It may give a false positive. You could think that he is telling the truth, but in reality is having a heart attack.
He's in good shape. If it was a heart attack then I somehow can give him one on command with a few small words.
 
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Thank you for posting this story of how all has started for you! It's so precious for a lot of guys out there.
Now I can't wait for the next stories of your sexual exploration and how it has changed your (sex)life!
 
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Zerbad said:
Thank you for posting this story of how all has started for you! It's so precious for a lot of guys out there.
Now I can't wait for the next stories of your sexual exploration and how it has changed your (sex)life!
Thanks, I'm hoping to write a few stories a month. Hopefully the first will be out next week.
 
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You haven't posted your location, but I sure do hope that I am within distance to enjoy personally the benefit of your hotwifery!
 
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Your story is typical so far of some of the women that I have known through the years that were not sexually satisfied by their partner. Men and Women both at different points when their lives tend to enjoy creative sexual relationships, threesomes and more.

NewlywedHotwife said:
Every woman has her secret fantasies. I'll be honest, my husband sitting and watching me was never one of them.
I would agree with you that ever woman has her own secret fantasies even if she never openly admits it. Funny that you mention it, I think you are on point when you said that you being watched by your husband was not one of them. While many women are into being watched, it would seem that far less are into being watched by their husbands.

NewlywedHotwife said:
There's a lot of hotwives who get their introduction to this lifestyle by finding their husband's porn collection, I was no different. I didn't know what to think about what I saw on his iPad, I was confused more than anything.
Typically how many wives find out considering that most couples do not speak openly about their desires and or fantasies as a result of so called conservative up bringing. Couple need to get out of their own way so that they can truly enjoy themselves.

NewlywedHotwife said:
He asked me how I knew and told him he left his iPad open on a porn site one night when he went to the bathroom and thought I was asleep. He asked me what was next, so I told him we were going shopping tomorrow and he was going to help me put together a Tinder profile.
It is good that you are going to guide your husband down the pathway. If he is a true beta, he will accept anything you desire of him.

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Our sex life had changed forever.
You are correct, your sex life has a couple has changed forever!
 
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NewlywedHotwife said:
Every woman has her secret fantasies. I'll be honest, my husband sitting and watching me was never one of them. There's a lot of hotwives who get their introduction to this lifestyle by finding their husband's porn collection, I was no different. I didn't know what to think about what I saw on his iPad, I was confused more than anything. I kept it to myself for weeks. He had never brought any of this up in the bedroom before. The more I thought about it the more I started to realize how conditioned I was. All of my life I was told you have to marry a man, only be with him or he will leave you and raise a family with him. I realized I didnt really have to abide by these rules if he didnt want to either, I just didnt know how to approach him that I suspected I knew how he felt. I couldn't just ask him about his porn habits, so I figured out a way to approach this from a different angle. One night when we were laying in bed, I curled up in his arm. I put my head on his chest and could feel his heart beat. Outside of my hand on his chest I didnt touch him, I knew if I stayed like this I could use his heartrate to tell me the truth. I slowly started some light dirty talk with him. His heartbeat got a little faster. I hid my true question for a while, then asked him if him if I could give him one fantasy what would that be. In retrospect he lied, he said something about a threesome with another girl. I had set him up though and he didn't even know it, he naturally asked me the same question back. He had no clue I was going to play into his true fantasy. I told him that I didnt know, but always wondered what sex with a really big dick was like. His heartbeat went througn the roof, I knew I had him nailed. Now I love him very much and never wanted him to hide himself or feel scared to tell me anything, so I whispered in his ear that I loved him and never wantes him to feel ashamed, but I knew that he wanted this for me even more than me. He knew he was ******* within the walls of our bedroom. He asked me how I knew and told him he left his iPad open on a porn site one night when he went to the bathroom and thought I was asleep. He asked me what was next, so I told him we were going shopping tomorrow and he was going to help me put together a Tinder profile. I stroked his cock for about five seconds and he came. Our sex life had changed forever.
Love that story........just wish it would happen for real with my wife
 
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wantstowatch said:
Love that story........just wish it would happen for real with my wife
Why not try the same strategy? Ask her what her fantasies are. She will likely tell you to go first. Don't even hesitate, just tell her you'd like to have two women at once.
There's a good chance that she'll say that's not fair, unless she gets to have two guys at once. Voila.
 
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NewlywedHotwife said:
Every woman has her secret fantasies. I'll be honest, my husband sitting and watching me was never one of them. There's a lot of hotwives who get their introduction to this lifestyle by finding their husband's porn collection, I was no different. I didn't know what to think about what I saw on his iPad, I was confused more than anything. I kept it to myself for weeks. He had never brought any of this up in the bedroom before. The more I thought about it the more I started to realize how conditioned I was. All of my life I was told you have to marry a man, only be with him or he will leave you and raise a family with him. I realized I didnt really have to abide by these rules if he didnt want to either, I just didnt know how to approach him that I suspected I knew how he felt. I couldn't just ask him about his porn habits, so I figured out a way to approach this from a different angle. One night when we were laying in bed, I curled up in his arm. I put my head on his chest and could feel his heart beat. Outside of my hand on his chest I didnt touch him, I knew if I stayed like this I could use his heartrate to tell me the truth. I slowly started some light dirty talk with him. His heartbeat got a little faster. I hid my true question for a while, then asked him if him if I could give him one fantasy what would that be. In retrospect he lied, he said something about a threesome with another girl. I had set him up though and he didn't even know it, he naturally asked me the same question back. He had no clue I was going to play into his true fantasy. I told him that I didnt know, but always wondered what sex with a really big dick was like. His heartbeat went througn the roof, I knew I had him nailed. Now I love him very much and never wanted him to hide himself or feel scared to tell me anything, so I whispered in his ear that I loved him and never wantes him to feel ashamed, but I knew that he wanted this for me even more than me. He knew he was ******* within the walls of our bedroom. He asked me how I knew and told him he left his iPad open on a porn site one night when he went to the bathroom and thought I was asleep. He asked me what was next, so I told him we were going shopping tomorrow and he was going to help me put together a Tinder profile. I stroked his cock for about five seconds and he came. Our sex life had changed forever.
i hope this is a true story & there will be a continuation as the journey unfolds.
 
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NewlywedHotwife said:
Every woman has her secret fantasies. I'll be honest, my husband sitting and watching me was never one of them. There's a lot of hotwives who get their introduction to this lifestyle by finding their husband's porn collection, I was no different. I didn't know what to think about what I saw on his iPad, I was confused more than anything. I kept it to myself for weeks. He had never brought any of this up in the bedroom before. The more I thought about it the more I started to realize how conditioned I was. All of my life I was told you have to marry a man, only be with him or he will leave you and raise a family with him. I realized I didnt really have to abide by these rules if he didnt want to either, I just didnt know how to approach him that I suspected I knew how he felt. I couldn't just ask him about his porn habits, so I figured out a way to approach this from a different angle. One night when we were laying in bed, I curled up in his arm. I put my head on his chest and could feel his heart beat. Outside of my hand on his chest I didnt touch him, I knew if I stayed like this I could use his heartrate to tell me the truth. I slowly started some light dirty talk with him. His heartbeat got a little faster. I hid my true question for a while, then asked him if him if I could give him one fantasy what would that be. In retrospect he lied, he said something about a threesome with another girl. I had set him up though and he didn't even know it, he naturally asked me the same question back. He had no clue I was going to play into his true fantasy. I told him that I didnt know, but always wondered what sex with a really big dick was like. His heartbeat went througn the roof, I knew I had him nailed. Now I love him very much and never wanted him to hide himself or feel scared to tell me anything, so I whispered in his ear that I loved him and never wantes him to feel ashamed, but I knew that he wanted this for me even more than me. He knew he was ******* within the walls of our bedroom. He asked me how I knew and told him he left his iPad open on a porn site one night when he went to the bathroom and thought I was asleep. He asked me what was next, so I told him we were going shopping tomorrow and he was going to help me put together a Tinder profile. I stroked his cock for about five seconds and he came. Our sex life had changed forever.
I and lots of others on here, would like to hear more about you and your story.
 
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Gaezel said:
My starting was when husbands cousin young man visited us and later evening husband begin to undress me to his cousin
WOW i bet that ws a exciting visit, id love 2here that storys complete details. R U good at writing? DM me with info would 'make my day'
 
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This is typical as we hear mostly about men's secret fantasies and what they would love to see happening in the bedroom with their wife. Men however tend to bring theirs out into the open at one point through different approaches, unfortunately women mostly, depending on their upbringing contrary to men keep their own fantasies to themselves or even act upon some of them independently and in secret.

Sooner or later, all comes out into the open and resulting in divorce or other form of reaction. Basically, women hold back from opening up to their husband with the fear of being labeled as ''Slut or *****" while in fact the men have been waiting for years for this to happen. Men and women, at least in this respect are not different than men, both have sexual fantasies and it is best that they find a way to bring them out and share them.
 
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asian/wife2bowned said:
Sooner or later, all comes out into the open and resulting in divorce or other form of reaction.
You are on point in that both men and women often have their own secret fantasies that they never reveal to each other for fear of the outcome which can includes a variety of responses depending on each others upbringing, society, and more.

Each gender tends to explore their respective fantasies in secret, at times through the engagement of professionals, and or with people they connect with that has demonstrated a similar or complementary desire.

Marriages and other committed relationships could/would truly last much longer if those couples could have open, honest and judgment free dialog early on in their relationship as opposed to living the lie that many couples live year after year which often results in cheating and the inevitable divorces later within their respective relationships. On the flip side, couples could/would also learn a lot sooner that they are truly not truly compatible with each other.
 
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Gaezel said:
yea, I had many months been thinking how to tell hubby , MY feelings, then one day I had power to tell him after coming home from work ( one my collegue from work had told me many times how it has been nice time with Her and Hers husband to be open marriage, tgat had been interesting me so long time when She had first time said that to me ) so I told Hubby that I WANT, NO, I NEED You to promise me that I can get other men also to keep ME their object especially by MY CUNT where I will let them to wank their DICKS, straight in to MY CUNT,,,,,
Being able to say the C word for...cunt was a liberating feeling, wasn't it? CUNT is maybe the dirtiest, most sexual word a female might utter, and many women hate it when a man says CUNT. And God forbid he actually calls HER a cunt instead of just using it to refer to a certain part of her anatomy.
 
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Gaezel said:
My starting was when husbands cousin young man visited us and later evening husband begin to undress me to his cousin
id love to read All of this story..sounds exciting.
 
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NewlywedHotwife said:
Every woman has her secret fantasies. I'll be honest, my husband sitting and watching me was never one of them. There's a lot of hotwives who get their introduction to this lifestyle by finding their husband's porn collection, I was no different. I didn't know what to think about what I saw on his iPad, I was confused more than anything. I kept it to myself for weeks. He had never brought any of this up in the bedroom before. The more I thought about it the more I started to realize how conditioned I was. All of my life I was told you have to marry a man, only be with him or he will leave you and raise a family with him. I realized I didnt really have to abide by these rules if he didnt want to either, I just didnt know how to approach him that I suspected I knew how he felt. I couldn't just ask him about his porn habits, so I figured out a way to approach this from a different angle. One night when we were laying in bed, I curled up in his arm. I put my head on his chest and could feel his heart beat. Outside of my hand on his chest I didnt touch him, I knew if I stayed like this I could use his heartrate to tell me the truth. I slowly started some light dirty talk with him. His heartbeat got a little faster. I hid my true question for a while, then asked him if him if I could give him one fantasy what would that be. In retrospect he lied, he said something about a threesome with another girl. I had set him up though and he didn't even know it, he naturally asked me the same question back. He had no clue I was going to play into his true fantasy. I told him that I didnt know, but always wondered what sex with a really big dick was like. His heartbeat went througn the roof, I knew I had him nailed. Now I love him very much and never wanted him to hide himself or feel scared to tell me anything, so I whispered in his ear that I loved him and never wantes him to feel ashamed, but I knew that he wanted this for me even more than me. He knew he was ******* within the walls of our bedroom. He asked me how I knew and told him he left his iPad open on a porn site one night when he went to the bathroom and thought I was asleep. He asked me what was next, so I told him we were going shopping tomorrow and he was going to help me put together a Tinder profile. I stroked his cock for about five seconds and he came. Our sex life had changed forever.
 
NewlywedHotwife said:
Every woman has her secret fantasies. I'll be honest, my husband sitting and watching me was never one of them. There's a lot of hotwives who get their introduction to this lifestyle by finding their husband's porn collection, I was no different. I didn't know what to think about what I saw on his iPad, I was confused more than anything. I kept it to myself for weeks. He had never brought any of this up in the bedroom before. The more I thought about it the more I started to realize how conditioned I was. All of my life I was told you have to marry a man, only be with him or he will leave you and raise a family with him. I realized I didnt really have to abide by these rules if he didnt want to either, I just didnt know how to approach him that I suspected I knew how he felt. I couldn't just ask him about his porn habits, so I figured out a way to approach this from a different angle. One night when we were laying in bed, I curled up in his arm. I put my head on his chest and could feel his heart beat. Outside of my hand on his chest I didnt touch him, I knew if I stayed like this I could use his heartrate to tell me the truth. I slowly started some light dirty talk with him. His heartbeat got a little faster. I hid my true question for a while, then asked him if him if I could give him one fantasy what would that be. In retrospect he lied, he said something about a threesome with another girl. I had set him up though and he didn't even know it, he naturally asked me the same question back. He had no clue I was going to play into his true fantasy. I told him that I didnt know, but always wondered what sex with a really big dick was like. His heartbeat went througn the roof, I knew I had him nailed. Now I love him very much and never wanted him to hide himself or feel scared to tell me anything, so I whispered in his ear that I loved him and never wantes him to feel ashamed, but I knew that he wanted this for me even more than me. He knew he was ******* within the walls of our bedroom. He asked me how I knew and told him he left his iPad open on a porn site one night when he went to the bathroom and thought I was asleep. He asked me what was next, so I told him we were going shopping tomorrow and he was going to help me put together a Tinder profile. I stroked his cock for about five seconds and he came. Our sex life had changed forever.
That is a nice story, I hope it takes another innocent housewife to a life of slutdom, like my wife