New cuck NB said:
Well before my wife and I dated seriously she had a fuck buddy. She fell for me and she broke things off with him.
One wonders why....
New cuck NB said:
So things were good and we eventually got engaged and then married.
Ah.... so, you stole your woman's affections and won her hand in marriage. Congratulations!
New cuck NB said:
Yet, I could tell from the start that sex was boring to her. She wasn't very receptive at all. However I must be up front about something. Ever since I started having sex I have been a minute man and my dick is only 4.5 inches when erect.
Excellent! You're a perfect candidate to become your wife's long-term cuckold.
New cuck NB said:
So, that probably had a lot to do with it. Perhaps she thought the sex would get better over time.
More likely your wife did not suffer from that form of self-delusion, but rather thought there would be other advantages to marrying you. Such as: she may have thought you had (or would have) higher earning or work-prestige potential than your competitor, so she.... along with you, and any children she might have with you.... would end up higher (perhaps significantly higher) on the socioeconomic scale.
This can be thought of as the reason.... or certainly one of the reasons, broadly speaking.... that so many women end up in marriages in which they are economically well-off, but in which they are sexually unsatisfied.
New cuck NB said:
Well one day I heard my wife's phone chime telling her she had a text. It was from a guy named Matt. Matt was her ex-fuck buddy. Me being insecure, I read the text. It said, "I miss you too baby." So, my wife had texted him first!!! I looked; [her earlier text] said: "I miss you."
Oh-oh.... trouble in paradise.
New cuck NB said:
I let it be. My wife came back in the room and started texting heavily the entire night. I heard that text notification so much that night. I looked at the texts the next day. To be continued.
Sounds like your wife has not yet learned she needs to avoid leaving her phone around where you have easy access to it. Either that, or she wanted to let you know she was going to cuckold you by fucking her ex-lover, without telling you that straight-out.
You haven't filled in the details yet, but they're implied by the subject line of your initial post. Presumably your wife met Matt, fucked him (thereby attaining sexual satisfaction), and has continued to do so.
So, congratulations, cuckold New cuck NB!
To help you adapt to your new and proper role in your marriage.... and in life.... as your wife's cuckold, I suggest reading:
The Science of Cuckoldry
by sex therapist and relationships counselor Susan Gower:
http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-science-of-cuckoldry/
The cuckold husband / hotwife phenomena,
by Dr. Cherry Lee, Ph.D.
http://cuckoldcouple.wordpress.com/the-cuckold-phenomena/
Meanwhile, please continue filling us in re. your now again-satisfied wife's sexual adventures with Matt.