As you you will see from my earlier posts we have slowly changed from a swinging lifestyle to the hotwife lifestyle with my wife now playing with guys on her own but only in Melbourne which is about 2 hour drive from home because she is parenoid about anyone finding out about her "second life" as she is on a fair few school commities ect and enjoys doing that as well as the hot wife lifestyle .She met a few guys we have met through red hot pie (a dating/swinging site in Australia) and enjoyed herself alot but I have sugested to her to try making herself available at a bar ect .Saturday night we were out having a few drinks with friends and a guy hit on her but she could do nothing as we were in our home town . I sugested that we try in melbourne away from anyone we know but she is reluctant as she says it would be wierd going home with another guy and leaving me there ,I sugested she go on her own if she like but she said it would be still wierd as she wouldnt like to go out with out me any ideas on how to get her to go that extra step