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True: my wife wants to be a *****

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My wife and I are in our late twenties and I just want to stress that what I write here is totally true. I know it's not exactly cuckolding, but it is something related.

FYI, my wife is very hot, Asian, well educated with nice medium large tits and a really tight ass (she's into fitness in a big way).

We are swingers, both accepted that as our lifestyle, and had some experiences. She fantasises mostly about getting gang banged which I am fine with more about that later....

Recently, she's been away for about 2 weeks. We have promised each other to be faithful. With my over active sex drive, it's been nothing short of torture. I have gone mad and sunk to the depest depths of depravity in my mind.

Out of frustration, and full of fantasy, I have been wanking non-stop. It's an effort to try to stave off urges. Good method, but for me I think it's not working. I still wanna fuck every piece of ass and pussy that walks past. Yesterday I had about 6-7 wanks and sometimes I felt immediately horny again after cumming. It's a fucking nightmare.

To fuel the whole thing, I have been speaking to the wife on internet each evening. I told her that there's no point in holding back now - I want to know I married a sexually confident slut - the most slutty of all the girls that I have ever been with. I also told her the competition's pretty high (it really is).

Well, I can tell you she's been doing a pretty good job of proving that's she's the dirtiest nastiest slut I have ever been with by letting me know more of her fantasties.

Her fantasies, more than my own usual fantasies, have been driving me fucking nuts and further fuelled my wanking. So, I have to tell you some of what's she's been saying:

For a start, she tells me she really wants to have two cocks in one hole. She thinks it'll be especially great fun squeezing them in her pussy and having them slip in and out. She thinks it'd be fun to try her little ass hole too even though she's sure it's too small for two. She'd said she would really like the two guys to fuck her really hard so she almost splits and let them both cum in her simultaneously. Then, she wants a girl (preferably young) to clean the cum out of her pussy with her tounge.

If that weren't enough, she tells me on another night that she just "love cock too much" and really wants to be gang banged. I asked her how many men she wants and her answer was "enough to make [her] pussy really sore" and "probably about 6-7 is enough for me" she said. She wants to be treated roughly and gang fucked in all holes, but finish up with all the 7 men's cum in her pussy. She said she'd do her best to keep it all inside. For that, she wants me just to watch (hence my post here).

And, apart from the cum thing (because of fear of disease) she actually wants to do this. She has asked me to arrange it.

She also likes the Japanese porn where the girl is really passive and is just used as a sex toy by a big line of guys. They each give her a quick fanny (pussy to you Americans) fuck and then cum in her mouth/face bukkake style. She told me she envies those girls.

And last night, after talking again about putting her fantasy into reality and actually arranging a bunch of guys to fuck the shit out of her, she said she'd like to film it and sell it. Then I said, "do you realise that then you're getting paid to open your legs and get fucked, just like a *****?" In principal, there's not much difference, right? Money for sex.

Then, I tested the water further and said that I knew that the she really likes the idea of being a ***** and guess what - she agreed. She went on to say she'd like to get her pussy used for money and as we're a bit strapped for cash, asked my permission to go out and earn for us. I was shocked. My heart was beating madly. I felt sick. But I loved it and said yes.

There was obviously some fantasy driving this, but she was also serious that she likes the idea and would do actually do it. It turned me on immensely (I can't tell you).

The thought of my girl dressing up like a ***** and earning money by opening her legs for older men and cash made me sexually psychotic. I love but hate the idea. I spoke to her again about it over the phone and she actually wants to do it when she is with me again. She wants me to put an advert on a local website (it's common practice here). Then she'll come home and tell me about it.

Just not sure if we are taking the fantasy about her prostituting herself out too far. In my sexual lunacy, I am encouraging this fantasy to grow and develop. Not sure if this situation will get out of hand one day... maybe it already has. Maybe that "cuckold angst" will turn nasty one day. Maybe I'll loose respect for her. But I am sure you can deeply appreciate the horniness of having a slut ***** wife - right?

When she gets back we are really going to try to put this into action - believe me, I think we'll do it. The plan we discussed tonight is that I get to wash her, wax her pussy, put her stockings and nickers on, help her choose her dress etc etc. Then when she's ready to go out of the door, I'll put the condoms in her purse.

Either I'll go to the bar with her and watch her get picked up, or I will just wait for her at home.

Either way, I'll be wanking furiously.

As we are planning to put this into reality, we are thinking about how to limit the dangers of gangs, human trafficers, and police (we are in Asia, all that shit goes down here).

Any thoughts? I want to hear people's opinions.
 
Give her the sexually freedom that she wants, Sam, gave me mine 7 years ago, and we have never been happier. By the way, she is not a ***** but your Slut Wife., there is a difference. Beth
 
Chastity is the only solution while she is out of town, masturbation wastes the sperm you should be saving to sow in her love tunnel. Massaging your testicles several times per day is permitted as it boosts your testosterone supplies, but the only hand on your cock should be hers.

You easily could let her have some sexy fun when she is out of town by offering her the chance as "your gift" for being such a good wife. But keep you sperm under lock and key, no chance of blue balls.
 
msbeth said:
Give her the sexually freedom that she wants, Sam, gave me mine 7 years ago, and we have never been happier.

Thanks Beth. I think I will follow your advice here.

msbeth said:
By the way, she is not a ***** but your Slut Wife., there is a difference. Beth

Don't get me wrong, I wasn't using the term in an insulting way. I think there is nothing wrong with the profession - never have. She is indeed my slut wife, but make no mistake, she wants to rent her pussy out. That's a **********.
 
I think this is a fantastic idea. You should let her even go out on the street and tell her she must take the first guy to approach her, no matter what, just like a real ***** would. Let us see your wife, im dying to know what her body looks like after hearing her fantasies
 
Saraha said:
Chastity is the only solution

After reading your comment, I have experiemented with it today. I haven't wanked once today (unless you count the several wanks I had everytime I woke up in the night). I was giving in to it every time, but today, since waking up I have been resisting and just squeezing my balls. I feel much better for it. But still deeply commited to making this fantasy a reality.

Saraha said:
But keep you sperm under lock and key, no chance of blue balls.

Also, following your comments, I have asked my wife to buy a chastity device. I have never even thought about this before dreaming up this fantasy.

The way we think we are going to do this is by asking the some of the multitudes of single men that approach us on the swingers sites if want to pay for an hour with her - hopefull this won't cause too much offence. Ideally then, I would take her to the house, take the cash and wait for her in the next room while the guy does what he wants with her.

Listening to her will make me want to wank and I know for a fact that cumming before they finished will be a disaster. Hence the need for the chastity device.

Afterwards, we'd take a taxi home, where I would probably feel her wet cunt. Then - and this has been inspired by these forums - I will lick her and only after she cums will she take off the chastity device to let me cum in her.

I have discussed this with her and she loves the idea. It's interesting how, although she's nervous, she's totally comfortable with this idea.
 
Not exactly the same... But close enough

My wife has several long term lovers and when she gets active on the internet she has more than enough sex. This week she had sex with 4 different men besides myself.

One recent addition to her stable has agreed to take on a home improvement project for her and we were discussing how this could be considered ************. At one point in the discussion she told me she thought it would be hot to actually get paid for having sex.

She told me she has never "sold" it but did have an older FB when she was young and he would leave some money on her dresser everytime they had sex. She said she was a young single mother and really needed the money but they never had any financial agreements. She told me she would always get a "rush" when he was counting the money and putting it on the dresser. She said she thought she would get the same rush if she was to sell it.
 
Cool. I am glad that other people have this fantasy (and reality) too. It doesn't seem very common, I have been searching around for it. I still can't find a name for it, and I know it's not exactly cuckolding.

I did going on to some New Zealand working girls forums and I noticed that quite a few of them mentioned boyfriends and partners - so maybe it's not that uncommon after all.

BTW, I'll have to ask my wife it's ok to post some pictures of her.
 
If she wants an incredible amount of sex, being a ***** would get her there, i had not though of that before and to tell you the truth it would be a lot easier than finding someone through an add or some other type of search. It would be a lot easier to just lay down and spread your legs and for money may even be better. However, you have to understand that the more sex, we get the more we have to have either through straight sex or masturbation. Nevertheless, I guess at the end of the day all Sluts or also Whores. Beth
 
Grubby,

Thanks for your intriguing post.

grubby42 said:
I know [what my wife wants] is not exactly cuckolding, but it's related.

The definition of a cuckold is, "a man with an unfaithful wife." It's short and simple. Thus, if your wife begins fucking other men — whether for free or for money — you will be her cuckold.

grubby42 said:
FYI, my wife is very hot, Asian, well educated with nice medium large tits and a really tight ass (she's into fitness in a big way).

Historically, Asian women have been ****** to put up with great oppression from their husbands, even more so than western women. Thus, it's good to hear your Asian wife makes no secret of her high sexuality and her desire to fuck men — indeed, *many* men — other than you, her husband. More power to her!

grubby42 said:
Recently, she's been away for about 2 weeks.

That's a fairly long absence. Given that your wife is intelligent and well-educated (as you say), is she away on business?

grubby42 said:
We have promised each other to be faithful. With my over active sex drive, it's been nothing short of torture.

That seems like an odd thing to have promised each other, since you and your wife are swingers.

grubby42 said:
Out of frustration, and full of fantasy, I have been wanking non-stop. It's an effort to try to stave off urges. Good method, but for me I think it's not working. I still wanna fuck every piece of ass and pussy that walks past. Yesterday I had about 6-7 wanks and sometimes I felt immediately horny again after cumming. It's a fucking nightmare.

Jeez.... 6-7 times daily is a lot. Do you find you're driven to maintain that pace over time periods as long as 2 weeks (your wife's absence, so far)? If so, I'd say your male sex drive is significantly higher than average.... and you're clearly married to a woman who's at or near the high end of the female sexuality spectrum.

grubby42 said:
[My wife's fantasies, which she relates by phone], more than my own usual fantasies, have been driving me fucking nuts and have further fueled my wanking. ....

And, apart from the cum thing (because of fear of disease) she actually wants to do [a gang bang]. She has asked me to arrange it.

Last night, after talking again about putting her fantasy into reality and actually arranging a bunch of guys to fuck the shit out of her, she said she'd like to film it and sell it. Then I said, "do you realise that then you're getting paid to open your legs and get fucked, just like a *****?"

No, no.... that's not the definition of a "*****" (i.e., **********). If your wife makes porn movies, and she sells them and they become popular over time, she can consider herself a "porn queen." To consider herself a **********, or a "lady of the evening" (that would sound classier than "*****"), she would have to exchange sex for money on a direct personal level.

grubby42 said:
Then, I tested the water further and said I knew she really likes the idea of being a *****, and guess what - she agreed. She went on to say she'd like to get her pussy used for money and, as we're a bit strapped for cash, asked my permission to go out and earn for us. I was shocked. My heart was beating madly. I felt sick. But I loved it and said yes.

So, does this mean your hot-and-sexy wife is now soliciting for sex in exchange for money in the evenings in your absence, while she's away from home?

grubby42 said:
The thought of my girl dressing up like a ***** and earning money by opening her legs for older men and cash made me sexually psychotic. I love but hate the idea. I spoke to her again about it over the phone and she actually wants to do it when she is with me again.

Um.... "your girl"? Is she your girlfriend or your wife? Anyway, I see the answer to my question (above) appears to be that your wife wants to solicit for sex in cooperation with you, after she comes home.

grubby42 said:
She wants me to put an advert on a local website (it's common practice here). Then she'll come home and tell me about it.

I guess you mean she'll tell you about her sexual adventures after she comes home from her future "dates," not after she comes home from her current trip....

grubby42 said:
I'm just not sure if we are taking the fantasy about her prostituting herself out too far. In my sexual lunacy, I am encouraging this fantasy to grow and develop. I'm not sure if this situation will get out of hand one day... maybe it already has. Maybe that "cuckold angst" will turn nasty one day. Maybe I'll loose respect for her.

As someone (Yogi Berra?) once put it: "Predictions are difficult, especially of the future."

grubby42 said:
But I am sure you can deeply appreciate the horniness of having a slut ***** wife - right?

Yes....

grubby42 said:
When she gets back we are really going to try to put this into action. .... The plan we discussed tonight is that I get to wash her, wax her pussy, put her stockings and knickers on, help her choose her dress, etc. Then, when she's ready to go out of the door, I'll put the condoms in her purse.

Assisting your wife with bathing, dressing, and putting on her makeup as she prepares for her dates is very important, so you have the right idea. Making sure she has an adequate supply of condoms whenever she goes out is also very important, clearly. Perhaps you could make it one of your jobs, as your wife's cuckold, to make sure she *always* has several condoms (or more) in her purse *whenever* she goes out. That will help her to realize she's always prepared to fuck if she sees a good candidate, and will perhaps impress her with your sincerity in wanting to make sure she always has protection from sexually-transmitted diseases (STDs).

grubby42 said:
Either I'll go to the bar with her and watch her get picked up, or I will just wait for her at home.

Your most important job, as your wife's cuckold, will be to ensure her safety. This is something you and she need to give careful thought to, since if she has serious — perhaps life-threatening — problems with a client, she won't be able to call the police and expect a sympathetic hearing.

grubby42 said:
As we are planning to put this into reality, we are thinking about how to limit the dangers of gangs, human traffikers, and police (we are in Asia, all that shit goes down here).

As you should. I suggest establishing a system for communicating with your wife easily and effectively when she's on her "dates." Cell phones will be best. It will also be best if you accompany her to bars where she plans to solicit, and remain in the background, posing as a stranger, while she does. Then, when she comes to agreement with a client to go somewhere and fuck him, I suggest she speed-dial you on her cell and tell you where she's going and how long she expects to be there. I also suggest she do this in the presence of her client, so he knows there is someone (you) who cares about her and will come looking for her if she comes to any harm. Your wife might also consider leaving her cellphone on, connected to you, when she's in a hotel room (or wherever) with her client, since if he turns out to be a psychopath and begins strangling her (for instance), she probably won't have sufficient time and/or ability to get her cell phone and call you.

An aspect of all this both of you should keep in mind is that many men who hire prostitutes are not "nice guys" when it comes to their relationships with women. That's one of the reasons they find it necessary to hire prostitutes for sex.

grubby42 said:
Any thoughts?

Here's one more. Your wife should use her woman's intuition to the max when she's negotiating for sex (potentially) with each and every man who approaches her or whom she approaches. You should stress to her that she should *definitely* decline to have sex or go anywhere private with those men she has a bad or uneasy feeling about, for any reason at all — or no reason at all, if it's just a sort of vague intuitive feeling. Your wife should "trust her gut."

I suggest you should assist your wife by "sizing up" men she's negotiating with from your "background position" in bars (or elsewhere), and letting her know if her client looks to you like a bad apple when she calls you on her cell to tell you where she's going (but before she departs the bar).

In other words, I strongly suggest resisting the urge to view your primary role in these ventures as "feeling turned on." Rather, your primary role should be to look out for your wife's safety. If you have a hard cock while doing that, what the hell, but don't let it divert your attention.

—Custer
 
You should let her have as much sex as she wants, if that means being a ***** then she can have sex 10 times a day. However, remember the more she gets the more her need will be. I agree your main tasks are to insure her safety when she is in bed with another man. That is all you should be interested in, not who she fuck's or how often. If that means you get a room next door to her's then that's what you should do. Beth
 
A lot of lonely men in the world, and it is probably cheaper to pay for sex that to have a wife who spends all their money, plus debt on credit cards that is a struggle to pay each month.

In some western countries, severely disabled people in wheelchairs can get money from the Government to pay for sexual release. But it is a hidden rule that few know about.
 
msbeth said:
If she wants an incredible amount of sex, being a ***** would get her there, i had not though of that before and to tell you the truth it would be a lot easier than finding someone through an add or some other type of search. It would be a lot easier to just lay down and spread your legs and for money may even be better.....

Beth, how do you usually find your men? And could you charge them or not? If so, how would you bring it up?
 
After a few years of marriage, some couples settle down to "once a week sex", so it would be cheaper to stay single and pay for sex when a guy needed it - that is, if g/fs were not in abundance.
 
Beth, how do you usually find your men? And could you charge them or not? If so, how would you bring it up?

All the men that I go with are married, and I go with like 3 or 4 at a time. I met them everywhere the last one was a guy that works at a Home Depot. Sometimes though an ad in a local personal.

However, if I was a ***** it would be easier, but of course you really have to worry about STD. At this point, my sexually needs are being met with 3 plus Sam, how ever you know the more a woman has the more she wants.
 
Congratulations on the excellent communication you have with your spouse!

And last night, after talking again about putting her fantasy into reality and actually arranging a bunch of guys to fuck the shit out of her, she said she'd like to film it and sell it. Then I said, "do you realise that then you're getting paid to open your legs and get fucked, just like a *****?" In principal, there's not much difference, right? Money for sex.

I do not think this is as unusual as some would think. If money is tight, why not get paid for doing what you want to do anyway. You should consider offering your services all so male whores/prostitutes are in demand. Oh how erotic it will be to prepare and dress her and take her to where she is to meet the other men.

I hope you will be extremely nice and encourage her and be sure she understands you are 100% behind her.
 

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Saraha said:
A lot of lonely men in the world, and it is probably cheaper to pay for sex that to have a wife who spends all their money, plus debt on credit cards that is a struggle to pay each month.

In some western countries, severely disabled people in wheelchairs can get money from the Government to pay for sexual release. But it is a hidden rule that few know about.

Gee Saraha, I didn't know that. I wonder if it works for women as well as men. I'll have to look into it for my partner.

Great thread! My ex was a *****/********** at one time. I loved hearing about her experiences and know a few others that tried it as well. I knew a guy who charged a dollar to someone who fucked his wife. It was a humiliation thing and they both enjoyed it. (as well as the guy who got some pussy)

I think one doesn't hear about it so much because of the nature of the relationship. Most people just won't understand, "My wife's a *****. Isn't it great?":eek:
 
Humm, for once I think you missed the point

The question her seems to be if the wife turns pro and charges for her sexual favors, and how is that different from just chucking her husband. Your answers are truly good, but not answering the question. Frankly, once a man has been turned into a cuck, it makes no difference what he thinks. I personally have not been faced with this but two of my friends have and I wish I could tell you they were revolted, but no, they were turned on.

Saraha said:
Chastity is the only solution while she is out of town, masturbation wastes the sperm you should be saving to sow in her love tunnel. Massaging your testicles several times per day is permitted as it boosts your testosterone supplies, but the only hand on your cock should be hers.

You easily could let her have some sexy fun when she is out of town by offering her the chance as "your gift" for being such a good wife. But keep you sperm under lock and key, no chance of blue balls.
 
We started out swapping with friends years ago. Then she started pickin up guys in bars and fucking them in cars hotels empty parking lots...wherever she could. And every step higher so to speak made me insanely horny and she loved it. She finally started having sex with hung black guys (still does) 10" and more. Then one night someone in a bar said they would pay to see her tits. And thats where it started...She has been whoring for a few years on and off. It makes me insane. Has a few sugardaddys so to speak. Occasionally once a month or so she will find a new "john" . We both know its dangerous and she could get arrested but thats part of the turn on.
 
Any updates for us??
 

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