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[gavantonne]

Why is it that all cucks are automatically assumed to be wimps and panty wearing sissies ?

I am a very masculine cuck who fits the dictionary definition of a cuckold (look it up) and not into humiliation or degradation.

I just thoroughly enjoyed watching other men please my previous wives. Those pleasures took on many forms, but seeing my wives totally satiated was my only intention.

Are there any other couples or single females who either have, or want, a relationship in which both are equals ? Why is it necessary for one party to dominate the other ?

A husband can spend untold hours looking for just the right gift for his wife's birthday or their anniversary in the hopes that she will love it. So why can't a cuckold husband spend those same untold hours looking for men to please his wife without being considered a wimp or a sissy ?

And why do so many 'bulls' automatically assume that a cuckold husband is just another faggot whom he can order to suck his cock ? Why can't a 'bull' be appreciative of a cuckold husband when he arranges for him to meet his wife ? I can't begin to remember how many other men were lucky enough to enjoy my wives over those fifteen years of marriage, but suffice to say that the vast majority of them were found by me.

I guess in a way I was vicariously pleasing my wife when I was watching the men I found pleasing her. My enjoyment was intrinsically entwined with hers, and the more she was pleased, the more I was pleased.

This has gotten to be longer than I had planned, but I just wanted to say that not all cuckolds should be stereotyped and lumped into just one category.

I'd be very interested hearing from other cucks, cuckoldresses, and 'bulls' who have something constructive to say regarding this post.

Thank you for your time.

 

[marcello]

Nice to hear that im not the only one, i love to see my wife fuck other guys, but im not into the humilation thing, im in good shape,well trained k-1 fighter.
my wife and i have good sex and i love this way of life!

 

[gavantonne]

Something...

Thanks...I often think I am the only one who feels that way. I don't always have to be present and watch either as long as she tells me all about it later.

 

[cuckoldinpanties]

Do whatever makes you happy and don't worry about what others think or assume.

I am ONLY submissive when it comes to others sexing my wife. The "panties" thing is simply a way to reitterate my position during that time. If you met me, the very LAST thing you would think would be sissy/wimp.

As for "And why do so many 'bulls' automatically assume that a cuckold husband is just another faggot whom he can order to suck his cock ?",,,,,,, hmmmmm, I haven't ever seemed to have that issue, wonder why you do????? Most guys are more than happy to bang the bejeebus out of my wife and could give a rats behind about me,,,let alone wanting me to touch them.

 

[inf_shop]

I agree with what everybody has said here, not all of us fits the stereotypical image of what a sissy is (or should be), at the end of the day, it is all in the mind, noone would ever assume im a sissy if they saw me

 

[imported_pussy boy]

From cuck to bi

I know what you mean gavantonne i to consider myself a masculine man . But you wouldn't think so if you read some of my stuff . You see for years like 35 of them i have had fantasys of my wife with other men . And she has cuckold me , meaning to me she has been fucked real good in front of me and i love it . To see another man or men turn my wife into a complete slut for them . Is as much a turn on for me as it is for my wife . But now my actions are hard to explain , to just see my wife being a slut is not enough for me . So i started having these bi fantasys and thinking what it would be like to suck a mans cock . And some but not all of my wifes lovers get off on me sucking them clean . And oh yes they may call me a sissies wimp . And i do like a little humiliation . But out side our bedroom i'm all man no panties on me just hot sex with my wife and her lovers . Oh one more thing do you eat your wifes or lovers creampie . If you do you might not be a wimp but you do like a guys cumload .

 

[Warpt]

I grew up in the country, hunt ducks, fish both inshore and offshore and work on an offshore oil rig.
I am in no way a sissy, but I am submissive towards my wife.
I love to be humiliated by watching another man take my wife from me and fuck her, make her squeal and then dump a load of his cum in her pussy.
I grew up in a disfunctional childhood where I was constantly under an evil step mother and step uncles feet.
After being submissive for so many years, and having several girlfriends fuck around on me, I decided to go with it and see how it turns out.
It has been great for me so far. I made sure my wife would fuck other men before we got married.
She says she does it to make me happy, but she does enjoy the fucking. Especially if the guys cock is larger than mine.
We have been doing it for 11 years and it just keeps getting better and better.
She finally is starting to enjoy humiliating me in front of her boyfriend and he is enjoying making her squeal and cum and fucking her in front of me.
Last time we hooked up, he pulled out and came on the outside of her pussy. Then told me to lick it up. When I went down on her, he pushed the back of my head into her pussy and got the cum all over my face and up into my nostrils.
Very humiliating, but still a turn on for me and he said for him too.
I only fuck my wife after he boyfriend gets her first. But I do jack off a lot to get rid of the pressure...

 

[nimrod]

Look, those of us, whose wives actually do fuck other men know the difference between fantasy and reality. Gavantonne, I do agree with you on the points you bring out, but this is a fantasy site for many who for one reason or another do not have a wife that freely fucks any man she wants.

I come here, mostly to jack off, often when my wife is out getting some dick. So I enjoy the hype.

My wife has long since stopped letting me watch her with her lovers. I don't even get cream pie, but that's not really exciting to hear is it? She often has me help her dress before her dates, then teases me and leaves me hanging as she leaves, both of us knowing that she will be enjoying sex with a bull soon.

I'm not a wimp or a sissy, I'm just a cuckold hubby. But I say, whatever gets me hard is good stuff.

 

[Saraha]

Terminology gets altered with time, but original meaning for a cuckold was a husband who was mocked by men, women and children who knew he was no good in bed, and therefore his wife had the right to seek sex elsewhere "as her birthright", and because word spreads rapidly from village to village, no other woman would marriage the cuckold if he sought divorce - his reputation went before him.

Any woman who married a divorced cuckold would have been laughed at and considered very odd and not in her right frame of mind. Better to fuck someone who was good in bed.

Today, cuckolds can divorce easily, but the orginal cuckolds could not escape the humiliation, so they had to grin and bear their wife's infidelity and be paraded through the streets and wear the cuckold horns on their head. Even children smirked at you for letting down the bride with your dismal sexual performance. Even her neighbors felt intensely sorry she had to miss out on an adequate sexual expression.

 

[Star425]

I'm the same way too, I enjoy watching my wife fucked, but I'm not into the humiliation part. Does that make me a cuckold or just a swinger?

 

[crustystef]

Have to agree with you. The lovers that my wife has had have been more of a wimp than me. As for a bull telling me to suck his cock First I would tell him to fuck off then if he did not he would be very lucky if he got away with just a broken nose and a few teeth missing. I know who would win. (Trained by British army to kill people if nessasary in unarmed combat) but I still like to watch my wife being made love to! Go figure?

 

[mimi27406]

There are many degrees of cuck and sissy

Sadly many see thing only in black and white with no shades. Of course all cucks are not wimps or appear sissy, but many do, and the general public or rather the moral majority feels if a man knows his wife is "unfaithfull" and does not leave her, some societies allow her to be stoned to death, then he is weak in their eyes. Not so, most cucks are bisexual, or latent gays, and although submissive to their women, they do not feel the same, and generally are not afraid of losing her to the bull. More often than not, it is the bull who gets jeolous, not the cuck. The devorce rate is high amoung married couples in the USA and I doubt the cuck marriages are any more likely to devorce that the monogomous ones. Most arguments, devorce are over money, or controll of money, or in the last few years different career paths and goals. I admire our younger generation, who have to a large degree, abondoned the old out dated religious beliefs, and have the common sense to sit down and decide how they are going to live. To be crude I suppose, women know they are going to screw to get ahead and do not wish to hear any chin music about it. Men have always done this without thought.

Saraha, is so right about the definations and they are changing. To each his own and a couple should be allowed to live as they wish.

 

[mimi27406]

Humm I rambled an forgot to answer the question

"Using the orginal definition, cuckolding is NOT an enjoyable event for the male half of the marriage. The male spouse has NO control of his wife's infidelity in true cuckolding ... he can either tolerate it, or end his relationship her. We get the definitions of cuckold, wittol, and hotwife mixed up in our discussions here. Personally, I could never tolerate my wife cheating on me with other people ... men or women! Mac "

Many cucks enjoy seeing their spouse haveing sex, or just knowing she is out doing it. Most of us were beyond humilation before we were 15. Sissy/cucks know their wife is having sex with others an only the uncomfortable fear/thoughts that family/friends/coworkers are going to know. They know it is going to happen get erotic stimulation from it. Why do the so called bulls, think you will want to suck, clean their cock, well all cucks are not sissy or bi, but a lot of us are, and we sure do want to. The dominate female, which it seems everyone wants and their is just too few, are always in charge.

 

[Jorge88]

Answering Your Question

Dear Gavantonne:

Well, we think that you have definitely posted a very important question.

To better understand it, let us just express the common Cuckold Stereotype:

" A dominant Cuckoldress, married to a submissive wimp or sissy, who will fuck other men becuase she needs a bigger penis inside her and also wishes to humiliate her husband"

We would rather see Cuckolding from a different viewpoint, so as to better answer your question.

After 30 years of practicing Cuckolding and also studying it we have come to this conclusion:

The basic tenet or the basic principle of Cuckolding is the following:

--That the husband sees his wife as the perfect or "ideal" woman---

In other words, when a couple practices Cuckolding as a lifestyle or as a consensual decision, the basic principle is that the wife becomes the woman he has always fantasized about.

To better understand this it is best to express what is the ideal "woman":
a) Physically beautiful.
b) Sexy
c) Attractive to all men.
d) Dresses in an alluring way.
e) Sexually very hot

So the interesting thing is that Cuckolding makes a woman exactly that.

So the question is:

What man would not like a woman like that?
turn that into
What man would not want a wife like that?

The answer:
100% of all men want a woman like that.
But the truth is that many men are hypocrites and would not marry a woman like that. But in the bottom of theit hearts they will always secretly lust for and wish for a woman like that.

So the answer to your question is this:
All men (No matter their personality) be they sissies, wimps, dominant, macho, or in between lust for and desire a woman like that.
It is just that some do not accept it.

So the ideal situation is what you are doing.
Instead of wishing, and lusting for a woman like that.
Isn't it best just to have her at home.
Marry her if you find her.
Or if you are already married to her, let her express her real femaleness, and become that beautiful woman that you have always lusted for.

Isn't this simply logical.

Best Regards:
Alicia and Jorge

 

[Saraha]

Adequate flow of Money in a marriage is very important, but if a husband works lots of overtime to keep the bread on the table, then he is not going to be around to "take care of his wife's primal needs and fantasies". His wife will get lonely and hear the gossip of how much sex other wives are getting, and one day "will take her opportunities" based on "why should I miss out".

If a husband can't perform in bed, then it is only "the right thing to do" to give his wife permission to top-up and socialise with other men and women. Sometimes a wife may need a bi-relationship to help her to discover what her body needs, othertimes a regular bull will make the difference she is seeking.

Many marriages could be saved if couples were honest and confidential with each other as to what their true desires and fantasies are, no matter how kinky. If their love is honest and trueful, then a way will be found to help each other "give reality to unreleased potential".

 

[bbcfanforever]

I agree with you. If my wife wants to say stuff like "hes doing it so much better than you" then thats fine. But if I want a BJ while the action is going on, im getting one.

When I start into this, I will post rules with/for the bull so were on the same page.

 

[Custer Laststand]

Gavantonne,

Why is it that all cucks are automatically assumed to be wimps and panty wearing sissies ?

I am a very masculine cuck who fits the dictionary definition of a cuckold (look it up) and I am not into humiliation or degradation.

I just thoroughly enjoyed watching other men please my previous wives. Those pleasures took on many forms, but seeing my wives totally satiated was my only intention.

Most of the "cuckold husband / hotwife" marriages described in:

"Insatiable Wive: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them," by David J. Ley (2009, 291 pp. [hardcover])

seem to be more-or-less similar to yours, and do not involve humiliation of the cuckold.

I guess in a way I was vicariously pleasing my wife when I was watching the men I found pleasing her. My enjoyment was intrinsically entwined with hers, and the more she was pleased, the more I was pleased.

The physiological reasons for this can be found in Chapter 10 ("Fecund Fluids") of Ley's book, in the last pages of the chapter. The reasons are, I would say, exceptionally interesting.

You refer to your previous wives. Why, BTW, did your "cuckold husband / hotwife" marriages end in divorce?

—Custer