Im not sure if this is the way to go about this-but i have a couple of ideas on getting my gf to begin to 'stray' to other men and start putting me on the back burner which is where i wanna be.
We met 2 mos ago from a website ad in which i stated that i was looking for a LTR where the woman is able to date around while i remain faithful. She responded but stated that she didn't cheat and thought it was wrong. I said if im ok with it-its not cheating and is ok. She said its still wrong-shes been cheated on b4 and it wasnt fun and she only wanted to be with one guy and i said its not a requirement that she see others-just an option. All is going well but as far as I know-she is exclusive to me and of course i am to her as well. However, she responded to this ad for a reason-there was no pic and it stated that i would support and stand by the woman through her encounters no matter what. So i think she would be turned on by doing this but is maybe afraid of what id think or if maybe i wasn't real. However im afraid of bringing this up because if shes for real about being dead set against being with more than one, then i could mess everything up with her.
I have a couple ideas on maybe getting her into it-if she sees she can do this and i will approve maybe she will start to cuck me regularly but she needs to get her feet wet first. One idea is to meet a Bull and introduce him to her as a friend from work or something. Us all start hanging together-me fill the bull in on her interests, and secret desires give them time alone from time to time while i go to the store or whatever or maybe we all drink one night-i pass out leaving them two alone allowing whatever to happen between them to happen.
Another idea is to talk to a bull online letting him see her pics and all, give him tips on her likes/dislikes-then give her online ID and he try and talk to her-charm her online and hopefully she warms up to him and they go from there.
Are these good ideas or am i thinking the wrong way?
We met 2 mos ago from a website ad in which i stated that i was looking for a LTR where the woman is able to date around while i remain faithful. She responded but stated that she didn't cheat and thought it was wrong. I said if im ok with it-its not cheating and is ok. She said its still wrong-shes been cheated on b4 and it wasnt fun and she only wanted to be with one guy and i said its not a requirement that she see others-just an option. All is going well but as far as I know-she is exclusive to me and of course i am to her as well. However, she responded to this ad for a reason-there was no pic and it stated that i would support and stand by the woman through her encounters no matter what. So i think she would be turned on by doing this but is maybe afraid of what id think or if maybe i wasn't real. However im afraid of bringing this up because if shes for real about being dead set against being with more than one, then i could mess everything up with her.
I have a couple ideas on maybe getting her into it-if she sees she can do this and i will approve maybe she will start to cuck me regularly but she needs to get her feet wet first. One idea is to meet a Bull and introduce him to her as a friend from work or something. Us all start hanging together-me fill the bull in on her interests, and secret desires give them time alone from time to time while i go to the store or whatever or maybe we all drink one night-i pass out leaving them two alone allowing whatever to happen between them to happen.
Another idea is to talk to a bull online letting him see her pics and all, give him tips on her likes/dislikes-then give her online ID and he try and talk to her-charm her online and hopefully she warms up to him and they go from there.
Are these good ideas or am i thinking the wrong way?