SandyWho said:Well, you can try it but I am pretty sure that your wife will know who sent it. Girls don't write letter like that, they talk openly about it! You haven't been to a beauty parlor or day spa recently. If you want her to know, either tell her directly or just get a subscription to Penthouse letters to "spice up your sex life" and I am sure you will find some story that you can use to open the discussion with her.