Was it a "mind game" or a test...?
Rather than a mind game, it may have been a test for you. If you responded in (what your wife interpreted as) a positive way, that would have been an important confirmation for her that you are indeed serious about her taking a lover and not "just saying that."
Paulie73 said:I called her cell and she started laughing as soon as she answered asking me if I really thought she was going to a motel with him. I knew she was playing mind games with me. She said she thought I could use a little something to cheer-up my day.
Rather than a mind game, it may have been a test for you. If you responded in (what your wife interpreted as) a positive way, that would have been an important confirmation for her that you are indeed serious about her taking a lover and not "just saying that."