How do I initiate and get my wife to cuckold me ?

[daboo86]

Hey guys

I was wondering if I could any ideas of you guys to convince my wife

We are a happily married couple for the last 5 years. However our sex life has become very dull and we have been having sex only a couple of times a year. Having said this I have never talked to her about cuckolding as I think she might act like a little prude.

The reason why I love cuckolding is because My dick is little (3.4 inches) and when we started to date my wife accidentally mentioned that her ex was twice as big as me.
I have tried putting a finger in her mouth while I fucked her and I think that turned her on though I didn't tell her anything.

How do I initiate this ?

Would much appreciate your help

Below is a pic of my dick fully hard.

Please help me and my wife from my dick lol

 

[MsGary]

Yes, get her thinking about big cocks, Even her ex. Has she had babies yet.? Things change a lot after baby. ESP after second one. There MAY be a form of porno she like too. Ir. lez. Gay boi on boy. Gay Man on. Boi. Even. Tranny could interest her. I am a TS, TG
Love, Heather

 

[daboo86]

Thanks Ms.Gary

Is my dick little ? From the picture

I don't think she would like that

We have one baby who is about a year old

Also when we have sex she keeps asking me to put more of my duck in even though I'm fully inside

 

[zippless]

Sorry to say your dick looks small. Has she had any other dick before? She will definite need larger. Glad to see you are trying to get things out in the open because she will eventually cheat on you if you don't. secrets in a marriage is a relationship killer

 

[Custer Laststand]

Hey guys, I was wondering if I could any ideas of you guys to convince my wife [to begin taking lovers, I gather]. We are a happily married couple for the last 5 years. However our sex life has become very dull and we have been having sex only a couple of times a year. Having said this, I have never talked to her about [her] cuckolding [me] as I think she might act like a little prude. .... How do I initiate this ?

Many married men have asked your question in this forum, and there are many threads devoted to responses.

For a good example of a successful strategy, I suggest reading through the entire thread initiated by Cuckykny on 8-13-2014, in this General Cuckoldry forum section, which has “Pretty Good Sign, I think” on the subject line. It begins here:

http://www.slutwives.com/showthread.php?69383-Pretty-Good-Sign-I-think

Relatively recently, Cuckykny’s wife made the transition from playing the “pretend cuckolding game” with him, which both of them found hot over a substantial length of time, to taking a lover thus making him her real-life cuckold. Both of them now find their new cuckold husband / hotwife marriage, in which Cuckykny, by mutual agreement, remains faithful to her, to be much more erotic, and much more satisfying on personal levels, than their previous conventional (i.e., monogomous) marriage.

Your brief description of your wife suggests you may need considerable patience, over a substantial length of time, before she finally makes the transition from pretend games (should you decide to take Cuckykny's approach, which I recommend) to reality, and transforms you from her conventional husband to her cuckold.

Good luck!

 

[Custer Laststand]

See:

How to Transform Your Wife to a Hotwife, an 8-part article that begins here:

http colon doubleslash www dot hotwifeblog dot com slash 2007/05/23/wife-into-hotwife/

(substituting normal symbols for the above “word punctuation”). Or, google A Wife Into A Hotwife on hotwifeblog dot com.

 

[daboo86]

Thanks a ton Custer.

My wife truly needs a big dick...she deserves it...cheers

 

[Custer Laststand]

Thanks a ton Custer.

Hey, you're welcome....

My wife truly needs a big dick...she deserves it...cheers

You might consider starting your wife moving toward recognizing the desirability of big-cock lovers by purchasing a hollow vibrating strap-on (for you to wear) with a comfortable harness. It works best if you lube your penis before inserting it in the hollow strap-on and securing it in place. And, you will need to lube the strap-on adequately, of course, so your wife doesn't find it painful.

I suggest encouraging your wife to fuck you on top, you wearing the strap-on, so she can move in ways that maximize her pleasure. That should get her gradually accustomed to taking the initiative during sex, a skill she'll need to develop when she begins seeking lovers.

One would normally expect a hollow strap-on to eliminate any feelings of pleasure during sex for a small-penis man, but if it's a vibrating strap-on, you... as well as you wife... should be able to feel it vibrating while she's fucking you.
An added plus should be that it never goes soft, so your wife will be able to fuck you as long as she wants (after taking some time, perhaps, to get used to its relatively large size).

You should be able to find one online that you can order, if not in a local sex shop.

 

[Custer Laststand]

My wife truly needs a big dick...she deserves it...cheers.

How's it going, Daboo86...? Any progress...?

 

[Chard]

In my case it was a natural progression. I was 30 and my wife was 29 at the time. Our sex life could be described as dynamic, we would make love almost every day and nothing was out of bounds, we were always looking for new ways to make it even more exciting. One night in bed I suggested to her that we indulge in a bit of role play, if she told me the name of a guy she fancied I would pretend to be him and vice versa, I would name somebody I fancied. This added a bit of spice to our love making but of course eventually the inevitable happened and I suggested that we do it for real for a trial period, we would actively seek partners for sex, (an open relationship). My wife was hesitant at first, she said the idea excited her and she wanted to do it but she didn't want me doing it. I convinced her that this was not going to happen, it was both of us or not at all. She did agree however and went for it big time. In the first two weeks she had been fucked by three different guys and I hadn't even got off the ground yet. I did however have some success over the following months but I eventually made a complete mess of it. I got myself a gorgeous girlfriend that I couldn't get enough of, I was seeing her at every opportunity, in fact I was in love with her. My wife saw the warning signs and fought her corner tooth and nail to save our marriage, it got very messy but I did eventually break it off with my girlfriend.
Even though my marriage was now back on track I realized that I really missed my wife telling me about her sexual exploits, I thought I was some sort of oddball wanting my wife to go out and have sex with other men but it turned me on immensely, I had never heard the term hotwife or cuckold but sharing her pussy with other men was an addiction that I wanted more of, so I talked her into continuing in the lifestyle with the promise that I would remain monogamous. She loved the idea and was happy to continue.
My marriage was never again threatened, my wife was never one for long term boyfriends even though she did have sex with the some guys more than once, she loved the thrill of the chase and conquest. She continued in the hotwife lifestyle for the next 25 years before finally retiring when she was no longer confident with her body. I have loved my life and would love to do it all over again.

 

[slinger137]

i think the way with your wife will be not that hard. start with a nice bigger toy...talk to her that its her lover fucking her or a guy you saw with her at the mall or in a por movie that she got turned on by. let her dress more revealing in public...wel
l your dicksize still got her pregnant if that is really your dick. 3.4" when hard is not really a pornstar size - i had to smirk at the part of her telling you to shove it in deeper...lol and you were allready all the way in !