Cuckold answers
Saraha said:
Being married to a cuckold is a fantastic goal to achieve, because when he has been trained into his role, a wife can act like a single woman who is supported by a husband who worships the ground she walks on - and strives to provide a comfortable home and a great income.
It can be the best thing for a woman if it suits her sexuality to take a cuckold husband but few women are sexually demanding enough to enjoy this level of sexual activity, where she has all her needs met between well hung lovers and an adoring husband. Only females with a very high sex drive would enjoy this lifestyle and make use of the options available to her.
It also sets off the radars of men who see a married woman up for sex in this way as major catch and she will attract many more lovers than any other female. Because she’s married and therefore someone else’s financial and emotional responsibility they see her as the lowest of maintenance sexual partners.
On a personal, level I’ve been asked to help make up a foursome with a total stranger and two females who he assured me were sure-fired lays. He said ‘I could have my choice but he’d prefer the married one because married sluts were so much less hassle than single women, if the worst happens then the poor husband is left with the mess. Single women in such circumstances present real problems but often the wife won’t even tell the husband he isn’t the father and she’s been knocked up by someone else’! However he was totally ******* that the married slut was my wife and I was the hapless husband he so little regard for. I didn’t make up their foursome that night but he did find someone who did, I’m not sure which of the two women he fucked, my wife or her best friend and I didn’t ask her which of the two guys she parted her legs for when she got back for breakfast the next morning.
A cuckold has to accept that his cuckoldress will be seen as ideal easy lay by so many guys and no contraception is perfect so there will always be a risk of her getting knocked up while she gets her pleasure from better hung guys. In some cuckold marriages where the husband is sterile it might well be the wife’s plan to get knocked up by a well hung bull, so both husband and wife need to have discussed and accepted this fact from early on. The other aspect they need to be aware of are STI’s, particularly where the wife is getting fucked bareback then there is a serious risk of her contracting a Sexually Transmitted Infection and passing it on to the cuckold if he is allowed intercourse or during oral servicing of the wife. That’s why for all concerned that the wife needs to know her cuck supports her as a cuckoldress and not look on her as his Hotwife. The husband of a Hotwife often looks on his wife’s sexual activities as an extension of his own sex life and never sees her needs as above his own sexual gratification. A true Cuckold however sees his wife’s pleasure and satiety as paramount and concedes his own sexual needs in lieu of hers. A clever cuckoldress will keep her cuckold in a state of sexual arousal and denial knowing that he is denied orgasm on a regular basis he is happy to allow her to behave in any manner that gives her the sexual pleasure HE craves for her. As long as she allows him some form of emotional release with her then he will be okay with substituting his own sexual gratification for the vicarious satisfaction he derives from knowing the object of his adoration is completely happy and fulfilled in a way she never could be with him alone. All he needs to know is that she knows how good they both have it and that she feels all the richer, cherished and loved because he is her cuckold.
Sometimes it may take more than one cuckoldress to get a Cuckold to this level of servitude and a young woman might well help speed things up and make life so much easier for herself by taking a husband who has already been partly trained as a cuckold and fine tune him to answer her individual needs.
A cuck will always suffer cuckold angst and the more freedom he gives his wife the worse his angst. She will need to allow him to adapt to increasing levels of angst, all he needs to balance his pain is to see her love him more and appreciate the gift of sexual freedom he is giving her. When BOTH see and show the other that their cuckold marriage meets their needs and exceeds anything they could have with anyone else.
. I am actually wondering how to find someone we click with on more levels so that it actually becomes a regular sort of thing; one time deals increase the risks, I feel.
