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My wife always had her favorite articles of clothing or outfits to wear at a party that allows for easy access to her bits...
My favorite will always be a loose thin cotton poets shirt with a 1/4 cup corset worn over the blouse garters no panties stockings a knee length skirt with a slit up the back and high heels.