I'm a fairly well endowed white guy...7 1/2". I've been with a beautiful woman for many years. Somewhere after a few years of regular sex that was pretty good I bought her a black dildo a little bit larger than mine. It was very erotic for us both using the dildo because it was black. It spiced things up some I'd say, and helped her have more orgasms than normally. We progressed to a larger black dildo and I became somewhat obsessed at giving her as many orgasms as possible. Sometimes we would fuck for hours on hours alternating between my dick and the very large black dildo and she would have orgasm after orgasm. It was all very hot. We bought the largest black dildo we could find after she became used to the 9 inch one. Yes, it was the BAM dildo. The results and site of her on BAM was intense. She couldn't hardly get the thing in at first but after a lot or work she was able to take the whole thing and for hours. At this point, I started to notice her pussy wasn't returning to its normal size and it seemed harder and harder for me to make her cum with my own dick. This resulted in a dilemma. Either keep using BAM or she would stop having orgasms. Of course we kept using BAM. This went on for a couple years and now she takes it with ease and rides it hard all the way down to the bottom...it must be almost a foot long and as thick as most peoples forearms. Her sex drive has increased dramatically with BAM too. More days than not, I would come home and find here riding it on the bed watching interracial porn. Its became ridiculous. I tried to stop using BAM and return to regular sex but after a half hour of so of little friction she would beg me to get BAM and turn on the TV. I wouldn't have much of a choice and I would lay there holding BAM while she rode it. SOmetime she would cry during that because she knew she couldn't stop using BAM and couldn't satify me and I couldn't satisfy her. Over time she bought more BAM dildos because she kept wearing them out. Well, that was over a year ago now and I left her for another woman and my sex life is good now. Just regular sex...no dildos. My x has only been dating black guys for the last year and I just ran into her the other day and she told me she was pregnant and didn't know who the father was.