Bulls Don't Care About Husband, Wife Has To Take Care Of Him

[nikolija]

There is a lot of imagination in the cuckolding world, sometimes too little reality. That is why most cuckold marriages end in divorce.

At the very beginning, I talked a lot about it with my consultant. At the very beginning of cuckold lifestyle, the wife's sex with others becomes a problem. The husband quickly gets used to it with or without medication.

Emotions are starting to be very important and the time the wife spends only with her husband.
Humiliation is another very important aspect. Sucking a bull's penis is a sufficient dose of humiliation for many husbands. If a woman allows a bull to humiliate her husband too much, either he will stop everything, or she will be shocked that he agrees and will stop respecting her husband.

Weekends where the bull and slut wife are alone or vacations only separate the wife and husband and after time lead to divorce.

The worst humiliation is when the wife brings the bull into the house and the bed in which she sleeps with her husband and the bull begins to determine what the husband should do.

If hot wife has as much sex as she wants without interfering with too many emotions with the bulls and having sex only in a motel her marriage will last.

 

[Custer Laststand]

....... The worst humiliation is when the wife brings the bull into the house and the bed in which she sleeps with her husband and the bull begins to determine what the husband should do.

If a hotwife has as much sex as she wants, without interfering with too many emotions with [her] bulls, and having sex only in a motel, then her marriage will last.

Thank you for posting your insights, Ms. Nikolija.

Re. your concluding recommendation: if a hotwife fucks her lover(s) only in motels and hotels, the cost of that, over time, could become significant. If she fucks her lover(s) at her home, where her cuckold is likely to be present (sleeping, perhaps, in a spare bedroom), or if she fucks her lover at his place (where her cuckold would not be present, presumably), there would be no room-rental cost.

In this sense, it seems to boil down to: "You pays your money and you makes your choices."

 

[Keesnl]

Seen this a few times as a bull over the years, some couples who had rules lasted and others ended up in a divorce.

Several couples ( mostly the guys ) really loved the idea of having a bull for just hard sex, nothing emotional bonding with the wife. Had several times the husbands loved it when their wives been fucked to a degree it almost was hurtfull, always found it like ( my idea ) it was letting me do what was maybe a step to far in their sexlife. Lots of times like they had seen in real hard porn movies, stretching their ass and pussy and play a dominant factor. Loved it when their wives made sounds like it was between pleasure and pain but disliked it after a while when they orgasmed hard by these kind of rougher sex. Found that these couples were divorced quicker then others.

Others ( 2 couples i know for over 15 years ) love it when yhe guy stayes home and she really let herself go, my place or a hotel. Even in public. Letting their wives, or even us both, tell what we did that evening or even a weekend, gets them excited. So many times brought her back and the husband thanked me for taking good care of her. Rules and not coming in a situation you could loose respect is the most important.
Some couples are a exception and have to be on the same level of yhe game knowing exacte the line of respect even when being totally degraded and humiliated.

Told this before about this couple, humiliation and degrading towards the cuck. Forcing him to eat my cum straight out of her ( all holes ), she's peeing on him, even asking me to pee on her while she's sitting on his face and not allowing him to masturbate if he complaints. Pegging or fisting him, all done quit rough. Funny thing is last year got invitedfor their 25th wedding annevrrsery.

 

[Keesnl]

Fuck the wife whenever we feel like, sissy husbands can if they are a good cuck watch and play with themselves. Afterwards, again if the are a good cuck, can clean my cum off her.

Sometimes we ( several wives i've dated over the years ) order them face the wall while we play. Not at all interested in their sissiy dicks or cum.
One husband begged to be fucked, declined this. My dick and cum is for her. She did fuck him with a strapp on but lost interest after a while, husband was sent away to make us some drinks.

 

[nikolija]

Fuck the wife whenever we feel like, sissy husbands can if they are a good cuck watch and play with themselves. Afterwards, again if the are a good cuck, can clean my cum off her.

Sometimes we ( several wives i've dated over the years ) order them face the wall while we play. Not at all interested in their sissiy dicks or cum.
One husband begged to be fucked, declined this. My dick and cum is for her. She did fuck him with a strapp on but lost interest after a while, husband was sent away to make us some drinks.

Bull should only fuck and not interfere in the relationship between a woman and a husband .

 

[nikolija]

My mistress wife says bulls are only good for sex, but not for living together. They really don't care about sissy husbands except to fuck them whenever they want.

Yes Bulls is good at sex but not good for living together.

 

[Keesnl]

Bull should only fuck and not interfere in the relationship between a woman and a husband .

It's their way of filling in a relationship, not the Bulls. Only there for the sex in the way they both want and love it.

Seeing a couple for several years now, they like it in a certain way when i'm there. Lot's of degrading and humiliation attitude towards the husband. Not the way i would like a relationship but it's not mine and i'm there for pleasure the way they love it. Like already said last year got invited to their 25th wedding anniversary, says something about their relationship in my idea.

 

[indicuck]

Thank you for posting your insights, Ms. Nikolija.

Re. your concluding recommendation: if a hotwife fucks her lover(s) only in motels and hotels, the cost of that, over time, could become significant. If she fucks her lover(s) at her home, where her cuckold is likely to be present (sleeping, perhaps, in a spare bedroom), or if she fucks her lover at his place (where her cuckold would not be present, presumably), there would be no room-rental cost.

In this sense, it seems to boil down to: "You pays your money and you makes your choices."

Gawd u still active even after a decade

 

[Custer Laststand]

Gawd u still active even after a decade

Time passes quickly when you're having fun — and, unfortunately, even when you aren't.

 

[jhunt]

The success of fuck/hotwife relationships depends on many things. But the two main factors are the relationship you have prior to venturing into the lifestyle and the amount of communication you have before, during and after. From my experience, couples that are more on the swinging side seem to be fine, those on the degrading/dominating side have more challenges long term

 

[PhilippinesFun]

Some bulls try to pull the "I would never share you line." Or, the attempt to fuck without hubby's approval and break some rule.

 

[indicuck]

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Some bulls try to pull the "I would never share you line." Or, the attempt to fuck without hubby's approval and break some rule.

Agreed.
Sometimes bulls become possesive and doesn't like to share.
That ruins the fun

 

[RobCuckToKaren]

Ever since her first date over 21 years ago Karen has always made it clear that she's only looking for good sex to the guys that she meets up with.

It might seem a bit slutty to tell a guy who she is going to fuck that she has no interest in love or romance but she has always seen our marriage and family life as her priority and make it clear that her husband and the kids always come first.

After nagging my wife about being black bred for many years it was a happy day when Dr Obi moved in with us at the beginning of 2017. Other than sleeping with my wife and being a breading bull he was happy to accept that he would not be involved with us or the children we hoped that he would father. This was not a problem for him because he would be returning to his family in Ghana when his Doctor training is finally ended and did not need any baggage.

Again it might seem slutty for Karen to just want him to fuck babies into her but it was always our intention to be their parents the fact that everyone would be able to see that they were fathered by a black lover and not me was not something we thought that we should be ashamed of. Our family and friends have known that Karen was cuckolding me and doing it with black guys for over 15 years and I was always proud of the fact that young black guys wanted to fuck my wife.

For us my wife being black bred was just going to be the next step in our adventure and I am so happy that we now have three boys that everyone can see Dr Obi has fathered for me. At the moment only our closest friends know that Karen is pregnant again and we are both looking forward to the scan in two weeks time and will let us know the due date and that everything is OK.

So my advice for couples looking to have a happy marriage is to be honest with yourselves and not confuse love with lover. If it is a black guy fucking your wife is what turns you both on make sure he knows that a good fuck is all she wants from him.

 

[JackUKBull]

Couldn't agree more with the title of this thread.

One wife I have been fucking for years wanted to see me. Due to Covid, things had been less frequent but we agreed to meet today. Earlier this week she contacted me to say she had forgotten that it was her wedding anniversary today. Told her that was her problem not mine. It was today we had arranged & I expected her to be there.

She came. I'm sure he enjoyed the taste of me when his wife got home for their anniversary night.

 

[crt]

My genuine experience here is that the more mature the bull and one with other commitments are the best for the relationship, one who knows it isn’t and can’t be 24/7 , but when he desires to be with my wife and she with him then they dont ever need to seek my approval , no matter what I might have arranged or what I approve of I don’t have a choice and fall into my place of being the acceptant cuck in the relationship

 

[SquirmingSub]

My genuine experience here is that the more mature the bull and one with other commitments are the best for the relationship, one who knows it isn’t and can’t be 24/7 , but when he desires to be with my wife and she with him then they dont ever need to seek my approval , no matter what I might have arranged or what I approve of I don’t have a choice and fall into my place of being the acceptant cuck in the relationship

There is indeed something to be said about the feeling (physical, emotional, etc) a husband experiences that moment when the wife receives a message (phone call, a text, chat, etc) from her Alpha, her lover, the Man that has become her primary sexual partner. Those plans that you two may have arranged are dropped in an instant without a second thought by the wife. As you mentioned, as a committed cuck, you accept that you truly have no choice and simple accept and adjust to those modifications. A functional cuckold relationship!