Advice on training her ass for BBC

[the good wife]

Help! This is the cuckold on here this time and I am looking for some advice. My wife's steady BBC boyfriend has an incredibly thick cock (thickest I have ever seen including porn) that just drives her wild. It was quite a stretch the first time and her pussy and jaw ached for a week. It must have hurt in a good way because she can't get enough of him and has learned to handle him in her pussy and mouth (it's incredible to watch him fuck her mouth with that monster). However, she has not been able to take him fully in her ass despite several fevered efforts - he is just too thick and her ass is still very tight. She wants it so bad and then he told her he has never had anal sex because of his size and she would be the first - now she is obsessed!

So the question is how can we train her ass so she can completely surrender everything to her black lover (yes I am a little conflicted by this). I have been using butt plugs on her but with limited effect and she will not use a numbing cream. A friend of hers told her an enema would help and she has directed me to look into that. We have no experience with enemas and could really use some advice. I am especially interested if there is a fluid that would assist her in accommodating his size and the thrusting. She wants this so bad and I need to get to past her longing for it to the visual of her impaled, moaning, sweating and completely taken.

 

[kittensucker]

Some Black Pimps train their white whores by making them wear a butt plug 24/7, every so often putting in a bigger size.

 

[_Mark_]

A full tub of lube would probably help too.
We use a water-based one from Ann Summers for my wife's big black dildo in her pussy

 

[eldoctor]

Take my advice. I am nine inches and thick and have never had a girl complain about anal. You start with your tongue, finger, small butplug, medium, than large. Tons of lube and lots of clitoral stimulation. She need's to learn to like it in her ass. This takes time and practice. More than anything, she needs to feel comfortable with it. Mentally and physically. Enema's are good for her mental outlook but do nothing for physical.

So you start her, with little things in her ass and get her off. Than you move up. Get her used to cumming with something up her ass. Eventually, she is up for a big dick up her butt. The main problem is most guys just wanna fuck a woman's ass with no prep or work up. Those are the videos where you see the girl cringing or grimacing.

For me, if the girl is not enjoying it, I am not enjoying it. Take your time.

 

[asian/wife2bowned]

I could not agree more with ELDOCTOR, mentally prepared to give her ass is the first part and the most important, secondly once she is ready mentally, get her as I did for myself, an inflatable butt plug along side the three set regular butt plug, preferably in black, let her try one and keep it inside her ass as long as possible, then gradually move to the larger one until finally she can take the largest of the three and wear it for few hours every time, her ass hole will remember to strech and open up the under pressure of her lover, then finally get her to keep the inflatable pulg well inflated inside her, shorten the tube at the end of the pump so she can go around the whole day wearing it.
This will get her ass hole to take his large dick without trouble any time he wants. Men should take their time and make sure that their sluts are ready for their monster adored dicks.

 

[kittensucker]

When you push out like you're constipated it opens up your sphincter for Big Black Dick.

A good time to practice this is after she goes to the bathroom.

She should practice alternating pushing her anus open and clenching it shut while you eat her ass and provide feedback.

 

[sissyslutlily]

Sun burn Aloe Vera with Lidocaine works great. Works as a lube and numbs just enough. Squirt a little inside and her whole ass will relax to accept whatever he wants it too.

 

[PhilMarlowe]

I have used a trio of enemas to prepare a slut for a night of assfucking. First a hot soapy mixture, as hot as your hand can take being submerged in it, and a mild liquid hand soap. Second enema being just clear hot water to flush her clean. The third being a mixture of hot water and mineral oil. This last one will help lubricate ALL the way in.

Start with reasonably sized enemas, being held in by a butt plug for several minutes. With each session, you can increase the size of the enema, the length of time she is plugged up and every few sessions, you can enlarge the butt plug. Eventually you should get her to look like she is pregnant with her belly bulging from the enema filling her ass.

The aloe vera gel with lidocaine is excellent as a desensitizer for her sphincter, but don't use to much and use a regular lube on top to provide the real slickness at her asshole.

 

[PhilMarlowe]

And if you don't have people to help with that sort of thing?

A well lubed dildo can be a good tool for a slut to use in her own ass.