Hey Guys n gals, well my new-ish gf is on the correct path, but it's been going pretty slowly. I have some experience in this lifestyle with previous girlfriends and more than a few success stories under my belt. However, this latest girl is presenting a few extra challenges. One of the primary road blocks thus far is that up until recently she's been unwilling to watch porn...at ALL.
As many of you may know, watching adult movies together is an integral part of any good plan to help get the girlfriend or wifey interested in exploring the idea of multiple partners, IR sex, etc....
Fortunately, she finally relented and recently agreed to watch adult films with me. I immediatelly went to work acquiring a ton of IR movies online to get ready. The problem is that 99% of the stuff out there is obviously geared towards men and is therefore pretty hard core. As with other girls, I'm sure that after I get her used to watching the movies she will grow to like the harder stuff. But for now, it is sure to turn her away before we even get started.
So, I'm asking for any and all soft core IR recommendations. The ideal plan would be to show her movies that sprinkle in IR scenes so it's not too overbearing on the IR theme. That said, she does know this is a strong fantasy of mine to see her take BBC, so it's not as if I have to hide it. It's "out there" with her and it has become a bit of an "in joke" between us at this point. It's just that so far she has been highly resistant to the idea. And I do believe the power of video used with her black dildos I bought her will go a long ways towards seeing if this is something I can spark in her.
I realize some women will never do this sort of thing. But, because of my experiences in the past I'm of the opinion that *most* girls will if given the proper amount of time, patience, and coaching. So, I'm not about to give up on this one just yet.
Thanks in advance for any and all recommendations!
As many of you may know, watching adult movies together is an integral part of any good plan to help get the girlfriend or wifey interested in exploring the idea of multiple partners, IR sex, etc....
Fortunately, she finally relented and recently agreed to watch adult films with me. I immediatelly went to work acquiring a ton of IR movies online to get ready. The problem is that 99% of the stuff out there is obviously geared towards men and is therefore pretty hard core. As with other girls, I'm sure that after I get her used to watching the movies she will grow to like the harder stuff. But for now, it is sure to turn her away before we even get started.
So, I'm asking for any and all soft core IR recommendations. The ideal plan would be to show her movies that sprinkle in IR scenes so it's not too overbearing on the IR theme. That said, she does know this is a strong fantasy of mine to see her take BBC, so it's not as if I have to hide it. It's "out there" with her and it has become a bit of an "in joke" between us at this point. It's just that so far she has been highly resistant to the idea. And I do believe the power of video used with her black dildos I bought her will go a long ways towards seeing if this is something I can spark in her.
I realize some women will never do this sort of thing. But, because of my experiences in the past I'm of the opinion that *most* girls will if given the proper amount of time, patience, and coaching. So, I'm not about to give up on this one just yet.
Thanks in advance for any and all recommendations!
