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Recent content by RaunchyRandy

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    why does it?

    It doesn't HAVE TO BE about anything that you don't want to focus on. You say that for you it's the color contrast. That's fine. For others, the focus MAY BE about Domination/submission, or any of the other activities you mention. I've noticed here that QUITE A FEW people, who don't subscribe to...
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    Why I choose Blackmen over My Husband

    I'm not gonna 'howl and come after you,' but I do believe your post deserves a serious response. If you choose to let your opinions about 'colored guys (YOUR term)' be formed by what you read in Dark Cavern, that's your right, but I'd suggest that's seriously short-sighted. Mhall said it best...
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    Why I choose Blackmen over My Husband

    You shouldn't be 'taken aback...' If her husband is a cuckold (and we surmise as much, since she's posting in the cuckoldry section), it's very likely that this is very much within his comfort zone (humiliation).I agree with mhall... It's also possible that this is total fantasy, written by...
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    R. Kelly sex tape

    Sometimes, it's just easier to not 'pre judge,' and let the evidence be presented to a jury of his peers. That's what laws, and courts are for.
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    Unprotected Sex VS. Bareback (Raw) Sex

    So... you're saying you NEVER actually empty (sans condom) your load/sperm/seed into an exciting, hot-to-fuck woman, and LEAVE IT THERE??? Just asking...
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    Unprotected Sex VS. Bareback (Raw) Sex

    Scenes such as you describe are why I say that MANY people ignore the risks and just 'plunge right in...' Those in search of the ULTIMATE in mind-blowing, primal/animalistic orgasms are VERY UNLIKELY to use any kind of protection. That's their way of ensuring that they leave the ultimate...
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    Unprotected Sex VS. Bareback (Raw) Sex

    A 'real man' CAN turn his back on raw (bareback) sex when he suspects that the potential sex partner has an STD or HIV (the virus that causes AIDS). Why would anyone knowingly have unprotected sex under those circumstances?How much value does one put on his/her own life, that they would risk...
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    Unprotected Sex VS. Bareback (Raw) Sex

    Also an interesting post...It seems to support what I've encountered in my own life's experiences (I take a 'TRUST BUT VERIFY' attitude). I'm going to LIVE my life, and explore all the nuances of the sexual mores that I find interesting and stimulating. Fact is, if we went to the extremes...
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    Unprotected Sex VS. Bareback (Raw) Sex

    I also wondered about Tara's post, but then that's her 'rationale...' I didn't start the thread to sit in judgment against anyone. I just want to hear others rationale when it comes to THEM considering having unprotected sex. The reasonings are obviously tailored to suit their own personal...
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    Unprotected Sex VS. Bareback (Raw) Sex

    I originally posted this as a response in the Dear Dark Cavern Section, but I think it warrants it's own thread. The Subject should be 'PROTECTED SEX VS Bareback (Raw) Sex'I often wondered why there wasn't a thread on the protected sex vs. bareback sex issue when involved with the act of...
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    DO NOT leave your tied up partner DAMN!!!

    This story emphasizes the reasons why we (well, most of us) in the D/s lifestyle employ the SAFE, SANE, AND CONSENSUAL kind of control. It's highly likely that the woman truly feels grief for the demise of her husband, and it's obvious that HE was a willing participant, in that HE arranged the...
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    sorry guys but size does matter!

    I've always thought that 'one size doesn't fit all...' Put another way, 'different strokes for different folks.' Different people enjoy different flavors, just like when buying ice cream.Some women enjoy us to be wide and short, others prefer long and average thickness cocks. (You...
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    My Lady Has Me Confused...any ideas?

    It seems to me that your lady is caught up in some inner turmoil about some things, like her relationship with you, her conservative upbringing, and her subconscious sexual nature which is bursting at the seams to be liberated.Don't over-emphasize your goals for her, don't be so hell-bent...
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    Shaquille O'Neal/Amare Stoudemire

    I was watching the Lakers/Suns game (the first game with Shaq) Wednesday night and noticed that Stoudemire was wearing a kind of padding under his jersey top. It looked almost like a bullet-proof vest. The reason I noticed it was because he'd taken his jersey top off at the end of the game...
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    Thinking Maybe Black

    I'd bet YOUR PAYCHECK on it, Mhall...