The Journey To Getting My Wife On Board

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Hey everyone just wanted to introduce myself and start a thread where I can chronicle my hopefully successful journey on getting my wife to sleep with other men.

The wife and I have been married for 22 years. I’m 52 and she’s 50, kids are out of the house.

A little bit of background on her I guess. She’s a fairly attractive woman, at least to me. C cup, she’s a sandy blonde, on the shorter side and she has the body type of a thick Latino woman. It’s my personal favorite body type, but she is self-conscious about her body. I think her views are partly related to her age as well.

Great ass though. An unbelievable ass thanks to her thick lower body.

We have a pretty good relationship overall. We spend most of our free time together, we’re kind of the homebody type, like to binge-watch movies and tv shows. Speaking of--anyone see Westworld? We’re going to give that a try soon.

Anyway, I’ve softly brought up the idea to her before in the past a few times, but she doesn’t really seem too interested. She’s given me a few objections, mostly having to do with her not understanding why I have it, how could I want to share her, and do I just want to sleep with other women and get into “that swinging lifestyle”?

I don’t know what to say most of the time to stuff like that. But, my desire to see another man take her sexually and satisfy her hasn’t gone anywhere. If anything it’s gotten bigger and I really think if I could get her on board we’d really enjoy it together.

So, I’ve enlisted some help and I got a plan, and I’m going to start trying to execute it and let everyone know how it goes. Wish me luck!
 
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Good Luck! Any photos you can share for the forum?
 
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You should speak to some good friend of Yours so that You do not tell wife, that if He could visit Your home forex. and peace by piece, many things and perhaps He has some alcohol, You take it all three and then You may little undress HER and some more etc. Could it be good idea. ? We it all started like that.!
 
Forgot to post an update here...

I think I made some headway over the weekend. I was told I need to first go back and re-explain the fantasyt o her and why I have it. So when we were in bed together on Friday night I brought it up and talked about the whole evo-psych origin explanation behind why many men are turned on at the thought of their wife with someone else. For the first time ever she told me "well I guess that kind of makes sense, a little bit."

I didn't give her a chance to say more than that and immediately asked her if she thought I was weird, said that I didn't want to be weird to her or for her to judge me. She said the idea itself is far from being normal, but then again there are worse things I could be into and she leaned over and put her hand on my cheek and kissed me.

After that I let it go. It doesn't seem like a lot, but I felt pretty good about the whole thing. Better than what I've gotten in the past.

And then this morning I laid some more groundwork. I didn't bring the fantasy up, but just told her how lucky I was to be with someone like her. i told her I really enjoy the times we have sex together, and I like her dirty girl side. I praised that part of her and talked about some fun things we did in the past and mentioned to her how glad I was to be with someone who had that kind of side to her.

It was a good interaction. I'm going to take mroe of the steps im supposed to take and lay some more groundwork tomorrow.

And geglu, I would but I think I'd prefer it to be someone I don't know first. I'm not sure how I'd feel about having one of my own friends sleep with her. I'm not sure she'd be into that either.

wimphub2, no but I'll work on getting some. It's always been a fantasy of mine to post my wife online :) The hard part will be getting her to pose haha
 
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Ofcourse You do like it is good for You both, we were not planning anything and also we did not know that My cousin Jorma was visiting us, and als when we took a liitle vodka etc. it just happened, and everything was so nice for all of us, We have seen many times after that too and we can speak how nice we then had etc. You know !
 
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Good luck on getting her to pose -- tell her you think she looks sexy and if you travel it would help you when you are away --- ;):)