Clarke, I know your feelings on this and I agree. but if a man gets it off by other than cummin in her mouth, yes, it is real fellatio. The most notorious of this type of fellation is when the high priestess in many South american cultures sucked off a virile male in the tribe (I believe it was usually the prince).
Also, I totally prefer to take the cums in my mouth and swallow it.
Those facials and jack offs you complain about are usually done for the movies they are shown in so that viewers can see him shoot it!
So... U R right---but there are reasons for the way it is.
much luv, MsGary