Hi Ms. Karen,
KarenMWSlut4Blacks said:
I didn't bring guys home until a few years ago, and they were in their late teens by then. Up until then I would meet guys who came here on business trips at their hotel, and stay over. Or, if I went clubbing and the guy did not have a place, it had to be the restroom or car park.
I'll hafta' say that meeting your lovers-for-the-night in restrooms and car parks sounds rather... well... teenage-like. Bringing them home to fuck them, even (or especially) at times when your husband is home, sounds greatly preferable...
KarenMWSlut4Blacks said:
The kids thought it was funny when they realised their Dad used to spend the night in our spare room if I brought a friend home. Occasionally they would tease me about being noisy during the night.
Well, children need to grow up with an appreciation that their mother is fully sexual, not some sort of "virgin-Mary-like" woman. So, it sounds like you've properly educated them re. the birds and the bees.
KarenMWSlut4Blacks said:
Once it was common knowledge, [my children's] friends would occasionally tease them about their dad not being up to it and me doing it with black guys instead. But, [my children] just asked them if there was a problem with that, and thy soon stopped wasting their breath.
That was an excellent response. In that way, your children educated their friends about their mother (you) — and, by implication, women in a broad sense — having strong sexual needs, and in that way brought their friends to acceptance of that concept... or so it seems.
KarenMWSlut4Blacks said:
My daughter is 26 now, and still lives at home. Her only issue is, her dad spends so much time in the bathroom masturbating. She tells him that he always seems to be jerking when she wants to use it.
Hm... obviously, your cuckold's masturbation habit has gotten out of hand. You might consider letting him know, sweetly and seductively and in a suitable setting, that because of your daughter's complaints about his excessive use of your bathroom, and because you aren't pleased (pretend to be displeased) about him masturbating whenever he feels like it, without your permission, you've decided to take ownership of his penis.
When he protests that you're his only woman, I suggest responding with something like: "No, sweetie-buns, I mean I'm going to take exclusive ownership of your penis. You're going to wear a cock cage for me, and I'm going to become your sole key holder. Soon, you will be playing with your weenie only when I give you permission to do so. And, if you continue to displease our daughter and me, you may find my permission will be infrequent."
Before doing this, however... and in order to follow through in a timely fashion... I suggest considering the possibilities in advance, and perhaps even going ahead and ordering a cock cage for your cuckold without his knowledge. See, for instance:
Wife led husband in chastity device (reviews & pics of different devices):
http://secretchastityhusband.blogsp...-devices-queens-keep.html?zx=71d5497f1d0576c5
Or, if you google "chastity devices for men" (without quotes), you'll see there are quite a few alternatives. They seem to be becoming gradually more popular among married women and women in LTR's.
KarenMWSlut4Blacks said:
As far as I'm concerned, [my now-adult children] both think I'm a cool mom. Our daughter thinks it would be great if she could also find an older husband who would agree to let her cuckold him when she's had their kids.
Well, as I said, it sounds like you've raised your children with the right attitudes toward women vis-a-vis their husbands and LTR partners. When you put your cuckold in his cock cage... if you choose to pursue this course of action — and, I mean, why not? If you're hesitant, you could view it as an experiment "for science"... then, he will almost certainly come to realize he needs to obey and please your daughter, as well as you, since displeasing your daughter will translate into displeasing you (hence, longer lockup times for him).
Ergo, this should enable your daughter to become accustomed to being the secondary head of your household (you being, of course, the primary HoH). This, in turn, should enable her to feel more at ease and comfortable with becoming her husband's cuckoldress after she marries. The results, I suspect, would be positive in an all-around sense.
Re. your daughter not yet having found a suitable cuckold-to-be among the local marriage candidates: you might suggest she begin advertising online in a suitable forum, stating exactly what she's looking for. If she does this, I suspect she will find there are a lot of men out there who are not only willing but want to become her cuckold husband. And, there will be no need for her to defer her pursuit of other men as lovers until after she has had their children.
Your daughter will, however, need to establish careful screening mechanisms — something best done, most likely, with your assistance.
— Custer
